chill girl, i believe what he wants to be is a girl, it's just
that he can't really find the right justification for wanting to be
one. It's not easy when u're born in thw wrong body, wanting to be
the oppo gender and not knowing why. Within the simplistic human
mind, one then starts trying to rationalise feeling that way, and
listing out why they want to belong to the opposite gender. the
truth is that for all the reasons given, there is no real "why". It
just is so. I think sting here is still going thru a process of
rationalisation as to why he THINKS he wants to be a girl. There
will come a point when he realise he wants to be a girl because
inside, he IS a girl. So ease up a bit on him yea? It's not easy to
be in his shoes now i think.