Call or SMS

SeraphimX SG

Say I met this girl once and I like whats I see, we talk a bit in a grp of friends and then we part. Shld I call her or sms her to ask her out?? I know some ppl would sms, but am I right in thinking that smsing is the “wussy” way???

smoke SG

Why do you want to ask her out so fast for? Just drop her an SMS to ask her how she is and see what's her reaction to you first. When you get past that part, come back here and get advice again. Mr. Green

tripudio_mutatio SG

sms seems less intrusive than direct calling…

tripudio_mutatio SG

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SeraphimX SG

Well its not happening right now, I was just asking something which relates to my situation a few mths ago...

But you see, how shld I go about getting to know her better???

ak0 SG

sms is better. got time to think for a reply.

smoke SG

Before you know her better, you need an excuse first right? So SMS her and ask her how is she getting along all these while. Her answer to you is critical on how to plan the next step. Everything also depends on whether she can remember who you are. Smile

SeraphimX SG

i know it sounds less intrusive, but wouldn't it also be less sincere....

And what could I put in those initial smss??

tripudio_mutatio SG

Confused

tripudio_mutatio SG

if u see it this way, then it'll be a trade-off between sincerity and being intrusive.
but if u call and the other party is too stunned to react since u did mention that u dont really know her well, it could go downhill...

try asking how she's been these few mths?

gerrykoh SG

Just send a few SMS to chat with her.
See her response- whether she reply immediately. If she gives one/ 2 words answers then not very keen.
After several SMS, ask whether u can call her to chat.

ditzy SG

There is a slight possibility your sms will not make it to its receipient if you're with starhub. Laughing