hidden love

Ice79 SG · 2005-03-05T23:28:50+00:00

happened to me once. got big crush on one very good-looking guy with cute dimples who could sing like Zhang Xin Ze. he was attached but his gf treated him v...

Ice79 SG

loving someone and trying hard not to let that person know is really a sucky feeling Crying or Very sad

parn SG

Chances are the person already knew or suspected. Well, it's always better to let the person know about it. The worst thing that can happen to you is...both of you will remain friends as normal, provided that she is mature enough. Else, she could avoid you like a plague...that's the worst that could happen.

She like you, she like you not. Pick one please. Smile

stormax SG

then let him know......

icepole SG

what are you waiting for? Shocked gather all your courage and confess to her. this way, you'll be able to get an answer, whatever her answer is.

it's way better than in a quandary.

jolin80 SG

tell him off hw u feel towards him is the best solution wad u are doing doesnt helps u at all it will only hurts yrslf

icyprincess SG

I used to hide my feelings. But recent events have made me realize that the more you tried to hide, the more you will end up deluding yourself. What do you expect to achieve when you hide your feelings? Do you seek to be with the person you have the feelings for or do you just want to continue loving him even though there will be no outcome in the end? If it is the latter, mebbe it is better if you can channel your energy into forgetting...

If not, gather your courage and ask. The longer you take, the more miserable you will be once the truth is out. If he says yes, you have nothing to lose and if he says no, at least you can concentrate on moving on.

i.c.y

Oyathatsme SG

Move on.

babymac13 SG

Wait for the right time, right moment right place right situation .....
tell her ur feeling ....
I remember i saw a nice chinese but left me deep sadness when u see it, u will know y .... Crying or Very sad

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Gackt247 SG

Know tt feeling..

I know the common good advice is to pick up courage n approach the person involved.. but reality is such tt things doesnt turn out as u would like it to be..

Ice79 SG

actually it's true, the more you try to avoid, the deeper the pit gets. but sometimes, from that person's reaction, the outcome may already be obvious. it's just a matter of seeing and accepting it, and hmm, how long it takes to stop the pain Sad

tan_william SG

Life is too short for regrets..don’t wait till the person is attached then regret k??JIA YOU!!!

carpe diem jur SG

hey ger... we'r in the same boat~!!

i finally made up my mind to be a fren-til-the-end rather being the tiring lovers.... both gotta get hurt if we'r lovers and i really dont wanna hurt him, whether intentionally or unintentionally... i rather stand by him and be good frenz... or maybe i'm juz too afraid to lose a friendship... it might be the end if i confess... we'll stil be frenz but it'll strain friendship...

difficult but u haf to decide for urself...

Ice79 SG

yah loh. at least still can be friend, rather than end up lossing a friend. the other person's attitude so cold, maybe should get the hint. act blur and remain as friend. guess such feeling should fade off after some time Rolling Eyes

tan_william SG

you sure this feeling will fade away??me had a liking for this girl for 6 yrs liao why still haven’t fade??

Ice79 SG

6 years. where is the ger now? still in contact? if single, maybe it’s time to rethink. i guess with less contact, slowly it will …........

dezling SG

Not such a good thing to tell a person you like him/her after a long time. Cos if its gonna happen, it will happen liaoz. If it doesn't, then jus continue being friends. Its better not letting the person know than be awkward about it later.

Think about it this way, it is better having someone close you can talk to, a person you never have. Than having a person but yet, there are communication problems etc.

It might be a blessing in disguise afterall. Look on the brighter side of life ya?

Waterapple SG

Use indirect ways to tell her. Emails, cards, gifts, good compliments, etc. All these are very good and indirect ways to let her know that you are interested in her. If she is also reciprocating, she would show you some actions likewise, else, it is always one way from you.

Well, this is the way some guys indirectly let me know that they are interested in me. When i just behave numb or normal, they soon realise the meaning and back off easily without facing a direct harsh rejection.

Love has to be mutual.

Devil1976 SG

Mr. Green

tan_william SG

she is attached now..while me just become single again..you may think that with less contact the feeling might fade..but how to have less contact when u both share the same group of friends??just follow your heart loh..if you feel that he wun like you and its better that you both remain as friends..then just be friends all the way..dun think about other things..if not..then the one that is gonna get hurt is only you..take care and good luck..

gerrykoh SG

If she is single, then go ahead & tell her.
This guy I know was too slow to act, the girl he likes was courted by another guy.

If she is attached, then just hint u like her & remain friends. As long as u are in contact u stand a chance in case her r/s don't work out. But don't sit & wait for it to happen, go & meet other girls as well.