How do you react when girls hit on ur bf in a club?

Camellias4me SG

I'll act BLIND. Razz No point going over to make myself look silly being jealous or insecure. Gotta trust him rite? I mean if he's out wif his buddies, he can flirt like no 1 biz also. But of coz i'll b "monitoring" how he handle those extra "attention". If not happy wif his performance, on the way home den buy some durians to eat, & make him kneel on the shells! Twisted Evil Laughing

dezling SG

i do feel honored in this sense dat girls come up to him. N yes, he does handle the situation quite well. Girls asked for his number, he jus rejected nicely with ‘I have a gf’. So i guess dats something i should be happy abt. IT took a lot of time for me to make do with this fact. Cos he does get quite a lot of attention when he goes drinking. N yes, girls pay for his drinks and if some guys get jealous, blame yourself for not being as attractive. But at least i am not bothered by it now. LIke what some people in the forum said, ‘If he wanna stray, would have done so.’ N well, jus giving him the trust that i feel he should deserve for now. If anything happens, i will keep you people updated.

jojoma SG

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Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

Don't think I'll have that chance...? < Laughing >

the_don SG

wah.. if it was me i will pat myself on the back for having such an attractive boyfren. the gals i don't mind, but if he starts attracting guys, i would be worried Shocked

deathscythe99 SG

No such luck, cos i dun go pubbing Mr. Green

Yunhaier SG

Seriously, that depends on yourself. (or your birth chart, for that represent yourself) I am generalising.

P.S: As a Leo, if you have attractive mate, it would likely be a source to boost your ego more than a threat to security. Idea

Cheers

nuchio SG

there are 3 things you can do now..

1. dump him (but considering the fact that you have a good relationship so that is not going to be it)

2. kick a big fuss and ask him never to talk to other women (which will be difficult because he will still get to talk to other women in the pub or elsewhere since he is so good looking. moreover, men dont like to be controlled)

3. feel proud ... that he is your bf and at the end of the night, he is leaving the pub with you and not the other women

my suggestion is that you play along with him, comment about the women after they leave, as if he is playing a game and you are watching it. accept the fact that women will hit on good-looking men. meanwhile you are the chosen one.

dezling SG

Option 1 is out. Option 2, can never resort to that cos he's the kind of guy, Chi Ruan bu chi Ying aka Don't take rubbish as a valid excuse.

Option 3. Feel proud? More like, 'Wow, people are still hitting on him.' And he tells me something really lame, people only hit on him at night, cos the lights are much dimmer and so, can't see well. But yes, he did tell me before it took a long time for him before he decides to commit to our relationship. Cos firstly, he will lose a lot of things (such as going out late and drinking etc) after he gets with me. But so far, he hasn't looked back since.

Well, i am glad i have his parents supporting me if he actually doesn't treat me right. haha.

nuchio SG

[quote]Originally posted by dezling:
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"people only hit on him at night, cos the lights are much dimmer and so, can't see well."

this i totally agree. i met a guy at the pub, found him nice to talk to and quite good looking. when he asked me out for coffee the next day, i agreed.

then i saw his face in the afternoon sun the next day at coffee... and changed my mind about his looks after that. lighting at night spots were designed to make everyone look good... like the hair saloon mirrors. also there is this saying "after a couple of beers... all the guys look good". that's why i never drink beer.

"Well, i am glad i have his parents supporting me if he actually doesn't treat me right. haha. "

no use if you ask me. he is the one in the relationship with you. not them.

Waterapple SG

There are rights that you need to give up if you choose to be in a relationship. Same goes for your BF. There have to be certain sacrifices of freedom, limitation of choices and selective associations. It all binds to responsibility and commitment to each other. Remember you are going into a relationship that lasts and it may be a marriage. If any of you can't sacrifice anything for each other, you may not be in love, you are just enjoying each other presence.

Perharps you love him but for him, you need to find out.

Devil1976 SG

True.

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