Why Is It this case?

boyboy18 SG

Why is it that most gurls wouldn’t ch00se a guy who is younger than them?

Marmalade Boy SG

Because older men knows how to treat a lady.
Or able to give them a feeling of security.
But at the end of the day, it depends on indiviual ladies' thinking.
I know quite a few who have younger boyfriends.
In your case, you don't such luck to meet them yet.
Mr. Green

smoke SG

Frankly, it's your mindset that matters. If you are intellectually more matured than them and have the confidence and drive to achieve what you set out to, they'd be very attracted to you.

Unfortunately, we guys tend to act below our actual age. Mr. Green

parn SG

Why not? There is a particular case on the newspaper sometime back where a 70++ years old grandma married a young indian guy. Smile

Well, guys who are younger than girls are normally known as boys. Razz

I think basically it's the maturity level that the guy possesses that matters. Laughing

Hmm...the sense of security is not there if the guy is younger than the girl, so naturally most girls will not choose a younger guy, the girl might just have to provide for the guy instead of the other way round. Smile

Devil1976 SG

Hmm.. Cool

MoNsTer SG

I had a few bad experience with guys who are younger than me. Somehow our thinkings are just way too different.
But i think it mostly up to individual.

SunRisE SG

hmm.. fishy..

But anyway.. it all depends on individual.. Like you say.. most.. but not all.. if the guy can handle its own relationship well.. and balances his life.. i dun see anything wrong with dating someone younger.. Yes, of cos sometimes certain things they disapproved or disagree with you when you try to reason out... Is jus be cos they havent been thru it and got there yet.. they will never know..

This applies to everyone.. Human will never listen unless they experience it themselves.. Unless you have someone who can really enlighten them..

Cheers.. Wink

M©+square SG

Few possiblities why this happens.

Younger guys tends to stay at the same point of r/s or trying too hard to shift gears too quickly. This wouldn't make a older girl impressed at those careless and impulsive actions, instead they think that it's rather immature. (However, if a girl/guy reaches past the teenage thought. They'll miss the innocence and raging waters in relationship hence hoping to experience it again)

Idea If a younger guy knows what he's doing and mantain calculated actions in the relationship. In short - He knows how to deal with girls.
More likely he will be able to attract older girls.

(If you think picking Love peas and giving a girl is very romantic and she'll definately fall head over heels for you. How many times are you going to do it? Even if you have the capacity to do it all the time. Ever consider she'll get sick of it.) - One may get sick by having Too much sweet.

Boyboy18: If you're asking this question because you see too many at your age. It's because girls about your age are more needy and ideal. Hence fall into hands of those older guys who have more experience.
As they grow older, they'll tend to set their expectations lower, they have another level of expectations.

Cheers

gerrykoh SG

Even guys same age are immature & childish. U end up mothering them.
Girls prefer older guys cos they want to be taken care of.
Also they don't have to wait long for guys to complete their studies before they get married.

M©+square SG

I think that the last statement is kinda outdated. Don't you think so?

juz_A_gal SG

nope.. it's still relevant.

i think gals also like "mothering" or bossing around a guy.. as long as at the end of the day, the guy knows how to make sound decisions and can take care of her.......

boyboy18 SG

but now in e society,it seems like 99% of the gurls think that guys only want their body not heart... which to me is like i mean...i also donnoe how to express...but in gurls mind,are really good singapore guys extinct? Sad

parn SG

Good Singaporean guys still exists of cos...just that they are unromantic, quiet, boring, stupid, stubborn, arrogant and yet horny. Smile

They are kind-hearted (most of them), selfless (some of them), like girls for their heart (few of them) and made for sg girls (only one of them). Laughing

But they were never an endangered species, heaps of them prowling around in Singapore. Very Happy

M©+square SG

Is this a reply to my post?

mach10 SG

u muz be quite old... thots like this is obsolete... if you choose to think that u r less mature den a girl your age... too bad...

mach10 SG

Well, girls who like bossin aroung their guy... not for long gal! unless she's lucky to have a guy willing to be bossed around.

As for the very beginning of this topic...

Ladies do, somehow choose younger men,
1. the ladies are not young anymore.
2. the older men loves even younger girls than them.
3. they simply fall in love with the guy irregard of age.!!

oh well, btw, if u wana apply for HDB, there's a single scheme. anyone single can buy a HDB at age of 35... y 35?... dun ask me.
Prob Gov oso think any ladies above 35 is probably not gona be married in their entire life...

Buy for the standard sexology side of the reason, juz when u turn 30, and ur wife 40... or u turn 40, and ur wife 50... Leave it to ur imagination.

So far my frens who had wife older than them... 7yrs difference.

Yunhaier SG

Psychologically speaking, the best biological age is for a man to be older than his woman by two years. To balance out the later growth of a man against that of a woman.

Astrologically speaking, I say hell with it. As long as compatiability, frequency and everything else fits nicely.

Girls wouldn't choose a guy younger for two possible reasons:

I) Social reasons. Unable to overcome mental blockage.

II) Compatiability, frequency and everything else does not fit. Basically, this applies to a guy of all age and not neccessary younger.

P.S: Strangely, chronological age does not determine maturity in relationship. - CloUdiSm Remix III. Idea

Cheers

boyboy18 SG

hmmm…i do see good responses…thks pals