parn SG Go and have a nice sleep, you will know how to carry on when you awake. If not, remember to have your meals first before you go to sleep again. Eventually you will get so tired of this kind of sleep and eat lifestyle that you will decide to do something else, that is when you will definitely move on or carry on with your life. Don't be such a weakling, life has no place for weaklings and people around you will try to hurt you and step on you if they found out that you are actually weaker than them. So never allow your weakness to show, not even in front of your close friends or bf/gf or even siblings if they are not close to you. Good luck.
blowfish SG it so pain to carry on when part of u are lost. i do not know what to type.. she said she don know whether she love me or not.. it hurt me so much.. but somehow i knew this would happen. How can she said this when fews day back she still can hug me and said love me blar blar blar.. I did so much for her but i do know she don really appreciated me. she start taking me for granted...but i believe i can change her for better... but no... every little action i can sensed am losing her.. So i give ourselves one last chance... i took her for a holiday overseas.. but the outcome made me more confirm there no more bond there.. So i told her to stop this relation. even am very sad right now. am just too tired.... she cried and ask me whether she can still be friends.. i told her no... but we might meet again who knows.. i still love her but am the one giving up,.. am i stupid? Am now focus on my works and hope we will meet again someday..
tan_william SG Actually you did right..the feeling of been taken for granted is very hurting..it makes you very unbalanced..its good that you wanna make a clean break with her..it will be very tough at first since you love her more..but it will be the good for the both of you in the long run..if both of you remained as friends..me dare to say you can't give her up one..you will be dragged on by her..its good that you now divert your attentions to your work..but try to spend more time with friends and family member k??you will be happier and more balanced when you have people that cared about you around you now..take care and good luck..
icepole SG hi blowfish you make a very rationale decision. you didn't allow your emotions to dominate your mind, which i personally feel in your instance is the appropriate thing to do. connecting with someone is crucial in a r'ship. and definitely risk getting hurt if the bonding fades. this is the life-transforming period whereby you challenge your own fears and sorrows. a stage of you growing and stretching to your edge. career comes first for a man. as for romance, leave it to the hands of fate and destiny, for you've already done your best.
v gal SG I’m facing something similar too…. but mine is a relationship of 6-7 years (lost count) ..... ended recently…...let’s move on together…...Cheers!
