wow, great discussion
yah, its true, when someone trust or love someone else deep enuff,
no matter what third party say, the advice will fall deaf
ears...there might be even quarrels and breakdown in
friendship
this question was thrown up during a discussion with frens, and one
of the really good solution i heard was this
'well let him or her be, but as a friend, if you really cherish
your friendship, dont forget abt him or her, there will be one day
when she or he will regret it, and might be even be in trouble, but
what u can do is to have the door open always, a door which your
friend come through to u in times of trouble"