I have a guy friend, AA. Not very close, but just can get along,
can chat and joke, but not close to the extend of can share
problems and physically whacking each other. Knew him for half a
year, then he got a girlfren, whom he introduced to all of us. At
first everything was still alright, but as time past, he seldom
join us for meals, and rarely went along for our road trip. And
everytime that he joined us, he would definitely bring his girlfren
along. But the girlfren would never allow him to talk to me without
her presence. He can talk to the other gals in the group, but not
me. If there were only 4 of us at a table, and she needed to go to
the loo, she’d make him stand outside the loo to wait for her, even
though the loo is just like what..less than 10 steps away from the
table
I have a bf, who is also part of the
group, and she also knows him. What possible threat could i be??
This has been going on for 2 years. The last time i met up with the
2 of them, and the rest of the group was more than 6 mths ago.
Tomorrow the whole group is having a gathering and i’m of course
invited. She had the cheek to call me and tell me to make sure i
don’t turn up tomorrow. WTF…i have not seen
my frens for so long, and she doesn’t want me going, just becoz she
thinks i’m a threat. I’ve already given up the frenship with her bf
and have absolutely no contact for the past 6 mths. Why is she
still doing this?? Can’t 2 pple of opposite sex just be frens and
nothing more??
