Will time really heals a broken heart?

last SG · 2005-02-13T19:38:01+00:00

So who did this? Headmaster or Roger? Or someone else? ----- I'm Looking 4 Trouble, where are you?

SnowFlag SG

interested to know ur views. Sad

shinta SG

wat happened Sad

devoid05 SG

wounds heal but scars still remain.

greengoblin SG

Take it as a learning lesson and try not to replicate the event.

But if you are a young woman... you must watch out for yourself as young girls tend to seek out guys who best represent their ex... and all the mistakes will come in again if not kept in check

gentlerock SG

Given enough time, any broken heart will heal lah.

In fact, from personal experience, given enough time, you'll even forget what he/she looked like.

Patrik SG

Once broken,It will never be the same again as before.

Yunhaier SG

It will, but then people usually think it doesn't.

When you believe and realise that it works - you have already gotten over it.

Scar remains, but it always happen when you gotten a cut isn't it?

Time crystalize and break-down - it doesn't heal.

Cheers

xking SG

Maybe its more a matter of taking a longer or shorter time to heal.

devoid05 SG

how do you do it? you can't possibly stop others from hurtin you if they want to rite?
unless you build walls around yourself?

greengoblin SG

Well the analogy I give will be... virus and bacteria can infect you all the time...but you can do something about it right?

Hurt is not one way. Often, the person will make himself or herself in a situation that allows hurt to come in although I allow for circumstances where one party deliberately hurts the other. However in life, we will forever be receiving and giving hurt. So what matters is how you react to the hurt. If you are going to lose your sense of living and your reponsibility to others and yourself just because of a hurt received, then I will say the hurt is justified as you don't deserve to live on this Earth.

We humans are made of stronger stuff than this. True, we will feel down and out for awhile...but ultimately we must stand up and continue living.

icyprincess SG

very well-said, esp the last paragraph Cool

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Devil1976 SG

Only if you allow it to.

[email protected] SG

wait long long?

cutepixie SG

if you really love that person i cant say it will really heal. It gets better with time and you might start to see other people but you’ll always have him or her at the back of your mind

ptw SG

True, It takes time to heal but you will never forget the period of time where the wound is still fresh.

cindtan29 SG

time can heal but its still up to individual to decide when is the most suitable time for the expiry date.... Wink

BaByBoY SG

agrees w Master Yun

But i feel there are more factors to if a heart will recover
Depends on how much the person felt to you
How much you loved her and the way she left you can make a great difference how time is goin to affect you

Lastly, it also boils down to how the person reacts after the break off had happened...

From my personal experience,
time made me used to the pain, thou i cant say it healed, i`ve gotten used to the life, and the scar is imprinted in my heart.. it`ll never leave me

browniebaobao SG

time will ease the pain..time will also make u feel numb to it..

but memories stay..scar remains..and the scar is there to remind you that you survived..

cindtan29 SG

*applause* Cool Cool Cool

BoYisHbOy SG

it heals but a scar will remain