sometimes with a group of friends you just can't compare how
well they treat someone else than they treat you
If you start to weigh this, ultimately, you will become very
unhappy one. Because in any group, some people are closer to other
people than OTHER people. Just take it easy and dont take
everything to heart too much.
Sometimes I feel when it comes to people who tend to be very
sensitive, it is diffficult to be friends with them not because you
dont WANT to be, but because they make it very difficult for you to
be. They don't remember the times that you are genuinely nice to
them, or the times the whole group enjoy being together. However,
each time you happen to be busy or really tired, they will chalk it
up against you and in the end, when you try to make it up, often
respond with a little bit of sarcarsm like "finally got time talk
to me har?"
Nobody wants their friendship to be put to task all the time
ba.
I am not sure if you are like this... so not accusing you at all
ok? Just that I do feel that among good friends, dont need to be
too calculating. BUT if the problem is that your friends aren't
good friends to you, perhaps you should go make other firends with
similar hobbies that will enjoy doing what both of you enjoy
doing?
