Hello. I've read your post and right now, I just want to let you
know that you are a champion. It's not easy for someone in your
case who needs to look after your mom who's terribly ill and
striving to be financially independent at the same time. Despite
all these, you remain optimistic and persistent. I wish I could be
there with you now to give you a hug and also, share your
sentiments, because, I totally understand how you feel.
Ask you something. What does a terminally ill patient needs
most?
Yes. Love. What I suggest is, that you continue to look after your
mom. No matter what, do all you can to shower all your love on her.
She may be heartbroken that your dad has another woman,
nevertheless, the most important thing that she needs at this
period of time, is your love and care. She needs you. So, you have
to be strong.
Chemotherapy is a very painful process one has to go through. You
must understand. A chemotherapy patient will suffer pains
everywhere each after the treatments. To them, whatever that
bothers them externally is no longer so important. What they really
need is their love ones' support, time, energy, care and most
preciously, love.
I am very proud of you for choosing to be strong especially at this
period of time when your mom needs you most. Continue to be
optimistic and never cease to pray for your mom's health. Although
I'm just an online personnel, you'll have my support.
And one more thing, you don't have to worry. After all these, God
will promise you a love of your life. You are loving, caring, and
sensible.
I'll be praying for you.
yours sincerely,
S.H.I.N.
