1. Some people get into a relationship because they're lonely.
They may also believe that by going into as many relationships as
possible, they will one day find the one they're looking for. (If
you don't actively search for them, how will you find them?)
2. Some people do not get into relationships because they don't
want to de-mean the meaning of love, and also because they want to
make sure they fall in love with a special person. The people here
may also believe that being in many relationships, also mean giving
bits and pieces of their heart away.
In the end, they may end up with only 25% of their heart to the
special one they love, while the other 75% belongs to the other
girls who has been in his life.
(Love is very important to me, i cannot and will not fall in love
with a girl just because she's pretty.)
3. Since the girl likes me, and i like the girl, why not try it
out? It may turn out to be something good, she may be the girl i
marry eventually. (Opportunity knocks, open the door.)
Category 1 will end up with many relationships in their life, some
nicer than others, some not as nice.
Category 2 will end up with very few relationships in their life,
but also some being nicer, and some bad.
Category 3, depending on how pretty/yandao you are, will determine
the number of relationships in your life.
Which category are you? And why do you believe it is so?
Do you believe that eventually all 3 categories will find the true
love they seek?