Originally posted by verloren:
[b]
tell her that good friends DO NOT stab you in the back and abandon
you when you're in your most difficult times. those are not her
good friends, and she definitely doesn't deserve them as her
friends. it's better for her to stay away from them, for now.
if you know some of her female friends, try to explain the real
situation to them so that they'll understand the truth. all in all,
that's all you can do.
[b]
Not all friends are good friends... We sometimes have we very
normal friends like colleuges, or classmates. But we still need
friends like these. those you see everyday. And if problem arises
between your classmates or colleuges, then you'll be left all
alone. Being "stabbed" is a harsh word. I'd say that she's just
being misunderstood. I dunno why girls are like that. No offence to
the ladies. But I realise this very strange girl culture. They tend
to gang up together to go against a single girl (or a few) they
"don't like", for whatever reason, leaving this girl all alone. I'm
not trying to take sides cos we won't know for sure who has
offended who. But there's always this sort of pattern going on in
the girls-to-girls rivalry. Guys tend to be more direct about these
thing. You buay song with that guy, you just "kick his ass".
What I'm trying to say here is, her friends are probably not at
fault too. I mean, if there's someone who's really using guys like
that, she probably deserved to be condemned. But for this case,
it's just a major misunderstanding. And to make things worse, she
probably won't be given much chance to "explain herself".
If you try to explain to her friends, they'll probably think you're
just one of her victims.
