Hi pal.
I agree with the forumites here that posted their comments.
As they've said, it's your mentality. Let me share with you what
I've been through.
When I was having s.e.x. with my ex years ago, which was the first
time I ever did such a thing as far as I remembered. But the moment
when she uttered something to me... something that goes like this,
"..honey, I'm not fresh anymore." I was shocked. I paused for a
while and that day on, I gave myself some time to think it
through.
Days passed, and I realized that I should get over it and accept
her for what she was then. From that day onwards, I made a decision
to get over it at once and I did!
As they all said, it's all in your mind. Also, it's your choice
whether you choose to accept or condemn that person.. But as far as
I understand, you wouldn't condemn a person you love right? So, get
over it bro!!!
Best of hope!
S.H.I.N.
