dun trust u to take care of yourself or dun have faith in
you?
hmm..perhaps he is the possessive kind..and also insecure..
last time my buddy used to have a bf like that..on and off, broke
up many times..dragged on a few years..of course she also got other
bfs in between. My buddy is very pretty..she always has
suitors.
Then this guy became very violent and abusive (verbally)..even
scolded her and threatened to take his own life. To a certain
extent that he also harrassed me at the wee hours..saying he wanted
to commit suicide etc etc..saying he is not a gd guy, did not take
care of my buddy and so he felt sorry etc..
Due to the fact that my buddy's mum dun like him, my buddy broke
off with him eventually and she said her love for him has died..no
matter what, can never bring the feelings back anymore.
I think we need to build up trust lor. How long have you known him
and be with him? was there anything you did that made him lose his
trust before this? If you still love him, perhaps you would like to
give him a chance. But if he ever repeat the mistake again, then
perhaps you would really want to consider to break up with him.