how the hell do you forget someone?

last SG · 2005-01-23T12:01:11+00:00

damage halfway then you will realize you wud rather have the memories? i.c.y

rumie SG

erm... just a 2months relationhip.... short, but it was special to me.

we broke up 2 months ago. but i still can't forget.

how?

scold me stupid and pathetic if you want, but don't remember to give advice too.

this is my first breaking-up with someone. i initiated the break-up.

Patrik SG

If you cant,dun.

LilO gIrL SG

How to forget if you have once loved the person?

Teach me.

The feeling might fade away with time.

But memories will ALWAYS be there.

icyprincess SG

ah, i need advice too. i just broke wif someone I really care about yesterday. We have been seeing each other for the last 6 months or so, and I initiated the break up oso, because I think we are in the r/s cos of wrong reasons.

Anywya, now I am trying to submerge myself in my studies and work to forget him. Or you can try working out, go gym, etc.

i.c.y

blowfish SG

time.. there will be one day u will rem him.. then u realised u actually already forget him.

icyprincess SG

yea, dat happened with my ex crush. but that time I already have someone else in my life, mebbe dats y I could forget him so fast...

i.c.y

gentlerock SG

Can't forget.....memories are there forever.

But time heals all wounds....it gets milder by the week. Two months is too short lah.

faithblade SG

yeah... time is a factor. As time goes by, your strong emotions will fade eventually. If you have not felt strongly for that someone, then it was just a fling.
So think good bout it, carry on with life Wink

Personally, I'd advice a nice cold shower, get a new hobby, get back old hobbies, meet new friends, bring a good book to a cafe... the ist goes on. Fnd was to chill and occupy your time. I go to jazz cafes with a good book to forget things, work and relationships. So give it a shot Cool

Joshua1975 SG

Hey hey, see! guy are not the only one having fun today.

back to point. see someone for 2 mth or 6 mth and say cannot forget him or her? just show you are young, too young for R/S now. what thick and thin had you both gone through during the 2 mth or 6 mth which you cannot forget?

once you start another fun, you will not even remember how you and that person get start in the 1st place.

pete98 SG

Wow I am also having problem with my current R/s too. So close to valentine day and so many r/s ends or on the rock. How sad Sad Do you have a good time with her? If thats the case why forget the good times? So accept that its be a lovely experience and move on. You could still be friends that way.

Gackt247 SG

I agree.. time may heal some wounds.. may allow u to forget.. but memories will remain.. scars will still exist.. i know how u feel.. i still do reminisce abt the past with my ex..

oh well.. u can keep urself busy with other things to take ur mind away.. though temporarily.. it's still alright.. schoolwork..work.. exercise.. comm work..etc.. most imptly.. u have to gradually cultivate n adopt a mindset of looking forward n not remain in the past.. wat hap in the past hap for a reason n no point remaining there.. Wink

there's more in life tt u haven discovered yet..

icyprincess SG

time is not a measurement of the strength of feelings involved. I wouldn't say that for him, because I do not think he was emotionally involved but I was. I decided to give us a try and invest my everything...my feelings, my heart, my efforts. So in the end, I was the one who got hurt the most.

i.c.y

hopy SG

u can only forgive not forget...

time will do the healing Wink

gurei SG

why force yourself to forget when u can't and shouldn't ?
she was part of ur life.
but it's time to move on.
since u picked this path
memories will always b there.
think of the hapy memories
think that it made a part of u feel the happiness.
u dont need to forget her
u dont have to forget her
it will only make u feel lost
and more depressed...
this may sound strange
but lok at the bright side
u now gained 'freedom'
instead of havin thoughts of all about HER
think about urself
u, urself is most important
only u
can make urself feel better

L0cked SG

Avoid seeing her. Things that will make u remind of her also avoid. Try to look out for other girls, spend time in work, playing games, going outing, making friends.. Keep urself busy.

rumie SG

#sniff sniff, sob sob#

the people in here in this forum are much more sympathetic...

thanks people, really need all of these.

love you people so much! Embarassed

haha, i'm a guy, but who cares, right?

let's all just remember the happy things and move on with our lives!

yea! Mr. Green

Danisdead101times SG

just leave it as a memory~ i don’t think you’ll be able to forget someone~ ormaybe keep yourself busy may helps~

ubermagicseller SG

Time will heal all wounds.Just let nature takes its course and continue with life,

BeEtHoVeN SG

i dun quite understand this part, can u explain ? Wink

starExcaliblur SG

How long can u keep yrself busy with stuffs to do?
How long will time take to heal yr wounds?

Though we can find things 2 do 2 keep ourselves busy, but once u r alone n free, once u met her on the streets, heard her voice on the phone, these feelings for her, thoughts of her will come back n haunt u.

then the whole cycle of forgetting that some1 u loved will repeat itself.

It takes a second to love some1 but a lifetime to 4get him/her