Okay, before I start giving advice, let me first address your
statement.
You said this -
There was one point of time in MSN where i was joking asking her
to date some of our common friends.However this was a mistake, She
got kinda cheesed off and said something along the line of If u
want me to date him i will do so because u said so. Well that kinda
shrunk my balls that nite and i confessed to her of my liking for
her.
Yes! That was a mistake. I agree with you. But what puzzled me
was, why did you do it in the place? Since you know it was a
mistake, why proceed?
If you know you like this girl, it's best if you can do things like
creating an atmosphere of tension over at her side when speaking
with you, or you can be humorous, cheeky, friendly or whatsoever to
build the tension of sexual attraction.. rather than moving the
topic into that one mentioned above by you. This stupid topic will
eventually backfires and causes you to express your feelings to
her. Once you confess your feelings too fast too soon, GAME
OVER!
You got that? Good.
Now, back to the present. A few things you can really do now:
-
1) Be strong. I know it's easier said than done, but I've got faith
in you. If I could do it before, I know that you can do it too.
It's your decision. Choose whether you want to be strong and move
on, or choose to be weak and fail all of your exams.
2) Time to socialize. As you said you are feeling lonely there. I
guess this is not only because she's rejected you or somewhat, but
I think you may need to make some friends there. In that way, you
won't feel so lonely and depressed.
3) Stop contacting her for a while. Do this for your own
sake. Hey, I'm not telling you to be selfish. But I want
you to defend your own emotions at this time and sort them out
before you can face her online.
4) Focus on more important stuffs at this time. Since you are
studying overseas, why don't you start focusing on your studies
more often now? In time, if you do well, you would have a bright
future ahead. I know you will. So all I need you do now, is to
focus; focus; and focus. The more you focus on one object, the
greater presence of that object will engulf you. Try this. And
don't let yourself be distracted!
Hope these tips can help you.
Any problems, you can PM me. I'll try my best to help.
Best of hope.
S.H.I.N.
