I've been dating this guy for 2 years. Well... For the past 2
years, our relationship didn't improve much.... No ups and downs,
just plain straight, constant relationship. When we were in school,
we don't meet up and do what other couples do, like having lunch
together,study together, etc. People doubt that we are couple. To
me and this guy, we don't really like doing such thing in school,
esp in school uniform. But because of this, we end up not meeting
each other often.. In 2 years' time, we only went out for about 10
times.
Recently, I confronted him. I told him that he doesn't really care
about how i feel. I don't feel special in him and sadly, he has
been rejecting me when i asked him out. Although it's alright for
girls to make the first move, but when the other party keep
rejecting, you will really get sick of asking him again. When I
tell him about this, he said:'I'm really busy and i seldom go out
even when i'm free.' Yes, he didn't go out with people even when
he's free. Okay, let me ask u guys out there, do u wish to see ur
gf when ur free? Or maybe just spend ur day with her? I believe
most of u will agree with it but not him. It's been around.. 6
months since we last went out.
The idea of breaking has been in my mind for months, my friends
persuade me to leave him. I choose not to. I don't wish to break
his heart, he still loves me, just that he's a homely person and
don't understand me at times.
He just can't compromise me, I know that i won't be happy if it
continues. So should i leave him or continue with it? Should i care
about my feelings or his feelings?
