Hey boyboy18, some people say u need 2 hands to clap and ur
target need to have feelings for u too, if not then it is useless.
I disagree with this. Feelings can develop over time, especially if
u show her ur love, concern, devotion, etc. She will probably
notice this and be touched and develop feelings for u too over
time. So dont give up if there is no initial mutual feelings.
Slowly work ur way and build it up. It may work eventually.
I can't say u r too mushy or what, coz different girls like
different approaches. Some girls like poetry, love letters, etc.
It's all depend on ur judgement what she likes best. Good luck.