haix need help !

-mist- SG

haix..is all started wif maple story a online game where i met tis ger called as A..who is jus my schoolmate..and J..my old fren + sch mate too..knew A jus nt long ago..den weeks lata is her bdae.. J ask mi wan go ma..so i went..and i saw some1 i like which is S.. S was J’s fren la..*all ‘character mention are same sch as mi * den we chat and i found out i like her..story dun stuck here..it stuck wif a guy call C..tt guy was same cca wif J , A and S la..quite gd bonds liao..den at 1st he ka jiao mi abit..nw ka jiao mi even more by peng seh mi when dere is outin..C delibraely say dun call mi go.. C was aso my fren..same class wif him 2 years back..i wonder wad e change in C man..i wan go outing so tt can hav grp outing wif S ma..e ger i like..den tis C was like ‘destoryer’? he knew tt i like S too..haix nw how? im stuck man..i know my bonds wif them arent gd..but can be built 1 ma..yes i admit i feel kinda outcast when wif them..but as i say..im new to tt grp ma..nw im a changed person as far as i know in my attitude..i control my temper..but has tis allowed J and C to climb over mi?

-mist- SG

the main qn is..wad 2 do? i wan jio S..den tis C keep cuttin off e line..plus..C and J kinda show less and less respect for mi T_T

keuriseudo SG

hey, your story very confusing. Moreover your Singlish is superb!! However, I'm a D7 in Singlish. Try writing in mandarin or korean, then i'll understand. Thanks...

Anyway, if you wanna court the girl you like, just go for it man.

In my opinion, I suggest you concentrate on your studies instead. March holidays are still very far... so, focus okay?? Mr. Green Wink

yours sincerely,
S.H.I.N.

-mist- SG

no 1 wanna help a sad guy X_x

-mist- SG

lol..i dun wan reveal their names so gt 2 try as singlish as possible u see..im sad cos ppl go see movie delibrately dun wan call mi..as far as i know..dere is a reason always when ppl does tt..i wonder wad his reasons

_Aaron_ SG

I know your reason for not disclosing the names...

But for some reason, your story fails to draw a decent picture in my mind. Maybe i'm not concentrating enough, or maybe you need to type in better english..?

All i see are a whole load of characters, and i dunno what's happening..

aH_v SG

hmm.. can I summarised it to the following..

1. you like this girl.
2. a good friend of yours is interrupting when you are trying.
3. You want her but doesn't want to disrrupt your friendships.
4. You do not know how or what to do next.

If this is the case.. the solution is rather simple.

1. Be confident about yourself and the way you carry yourself. Girls often prefer to be with guys who are confident and knows what they are doing.

2. Disrupting the friendship? Well, unless you are telling me that she is now together with your friend, otherwise, there's no harm for a little competition. Afterall, she gets to cast a vote too.

3. Go out without you? Why not be the one to initial the outing? Why not ask her if she wants to do some stuff together? Thing is this.. if you keep trying to ease the tension of owning her.. you may just drift away from her.

On the other hand, try being friendly and soft spoken and learn more about her by establishing more direct communication. (i.e. go outing right? Be the first to arrive. You never know if she is the 2nd person who turns out while all others are late.)

This is all I have to offer. I hope I don't create a monster out of it.

Devil1976 SG

Don't bother about the others. If you're really keen with 'A', make more direct approaches on her. May it be tiny or big moves. Do things a little by a little. How old are all of you?

Put your friendship with J, C & S on 2nd check. Especially with 'J'.

Last but not least... I think you should be concentrating on your studies...?? Laughing I've nothing against people having some simple love relationship at your age but don't let it affect your studies... Mr. Green "

-mist- SG

thx all for all ur replies ur replies is greatly appreciated..nx time i will write it in proper eng..sorri for those untidyness =(

bratpig SG

maple story sux la…lousy game…pui

-mist- SG

so? im nt focusing on maple here..mind ur words plz =D

Takumi2eLimit SG

go and wreck C la...
Laughing

mahai102 SG

eat more oranges…u should be able to see in the dark…

-mist- SG

??? wad u mean?