i dunwan to be a morning glory

fondsphere SG

haiz,
i have just been told by my guy friend that i m just like a morning glory, hanging so tightly to my other girl friend, and that i always have no opinion of my own, voicing out so little in the group. Why cant i be a BIG tree or some independent grass will be fine. but why m i a morning glory in the group?

BrUtUs SG

u can choose not to.... jz start to have more confidence in yourself... let ur ideas be heard to everyone Cool

Devil1976 SG

Learn to exercie your own thoughts 1st... Then slowly contribute little by little... Or just speak up a bit to start off the sharing...

the_don SG

u guy or gal?

i think nothing wrong being sticky (that is the other word for 'morning glory') but the stick-ee might not be too comfortable with it ya? i got a very close galfren also like that, always follow crowd, no option, ask one question take 20 sms to reach in-conclusive conclusion just becos she don't want to say wat she wants (that is if she actually wants anything). but recently she started out growing that and is doing fine - finally voicing her views more often and stuff. so don't worry lah, it's just a phase in life ya? Wink

greengoblin SG

It comes with maturity and trials in life. So expose yourself more and you will naturally find yourself more akin to defend your own views

kops21 SG

Just be yourself. Be Strong. Cool

loneconfuser SG

is it because of fear that you dare not voice out? Fear that people may not like your ideas? Or you really have nothing to voice out?
find out what is the cause that's preventing you from voicing out, from being independent, and slowly find your way from there Wink

meltz SG

try to be more independent ?????
go out on yr own ... watch a movie on yr own... this can help build up yr courage ........

loneconfuser SG

i've been doing that for half a year already, it does help a bit, but... it also introduced a new problem loneliness Confused

meltz SG

must learn to enjoy loneliness.............. it nice to be alone sometimes

choco B SG

Just like a queen needs sycophants, some women like having a submissive man around. As long as you treat her nice enough and you're both happy with the arrangement, why bother what people say?

loneconfuser SG

true... Wink

gerrykoh SG

It is good to have company but sometimes need to learn to do things alone.
Guys like girls with a mind of their own.
Speak your mind, u don't have to please everyone all the time.

gerrykoh SG

It is good to have company but sometimes need to learn to do things alone.
Guys like girls with a mind of their own.
Speak your mind, u don't have to please everyone all the time.

foxwalk SG

i am not a star in the sky..

i am the sun!!