True life story believe a not

last SG · 2004-11-27T07:42:23+00:00

Before u got steady with a guy, open your eyes big big first..

kiekie SG

Thanks for all ur advices.

In fact i tot i had gotten out of it, i always tried not to tink abt the process tat i had gone thru and avoid any topics related to it. I nv bring up these to any of my buddies except 1 who was my closest sis cuz i dun want to be reminded of my wrong deeds.

Reflecting on wat foxwalk had said....U r a serial killer! i realised tat i had been deceiving myself all these while.

Thinking back, Actually i mind a lot abt my abortions. Whenever i saw any movies related to it or heard my colleagues talking abt it, i will pretend tat i dun feel anyting. In fact, my heart was throbbing in pain. what else can i do? cry in front of my frenz telling them abt my abortions?

If its not for my character, i dun tink i cud even have the opportunity to post my encounters here.

kiekie SG

I am short tempered by nature and stubborn at times. However, i do not flare up easily unless it hurts tat mucH.

I can be a good counsellor, good listener to others' problems and will always analyze the whole situation before findin a way to tackle their problems.

When it comes to my own, its totally different. SOmetimes i will go geegee gaagaa or guuguu..

But since i had learnt things the hard way round, i always felt tat tomorrow will be better. Tat's the way i live by. Self-Console helps..

Shake_Spear SG

It is a good question. The fact that you asked this proves the point that this quotation is trying to pass to us.

Lets analyse this. To do that, I think its good to know briefly who is B.F. Skinner. Could it be Boy Friend Skinner. I would not go to think so. The one I am referring to is Burrhus Frederic Skinner.

He was an American psychologist and author. He conducted pioneering work on experimental psychology and advocated behaviorism, which seeks to understand behavior entirely in terms of physiological responses to external stimuli. He also wrote a number of controversial works in which he proposed the widespread use of psychological behavior modification techniques in order to improve society and increase human happiness.

In simple terms, lets just say he was a guy who went to school. I know its a weird but some people do that.

I think most of us, or at least some of us know that machines cannot think. This is something that you have to take for granted even if you don't know it.

But why is he saying that there is a problem of whether men can think? This is because sometimes, some people, it can be anyone, you, your boyfriend, really anyone, do not think. If everyone took time to think before doing anything then the world would go very slowly. And Doctors would not make money by doing abortions and such.

I hope I have cleared your doubts about this quotation and that I was of some help at least.

boy in blues SG

i think the worst thing a guy can do to his gf is to 2-time. there's no future with him. it's more constructive to find someone else who will appreciate you

Burgerking SG

Maybe if you should have take longer time to choose your bf,you would have avoided such tradegy.From the time interval you took to change a new bf shows that you didn’t really make your decision after careful consideration.

kiekie SG

I agreed...i was too .....fickle minded.

pysche SG

Maybe you are still young at that time..........

kiekie SG

Wink keke gd way to console myself...... thanks ya.
Pysche i realy hope u can stand up straight and be brave. in fact i still dun realy get the whole pic of ur story. but i do hope tat life will be better for u.

boy in blues SG

aunt agony forum needs good counsellors. not just those who are expert but most importantly, those who care enough to listen and guide the troubled person along to recovery. it's always easier to solve others' problems than our own because our minds are more open when viewing from outside the box. you can benefit from helping others by being exposed to various problems and being more experienced when the time comes for you to handle your personal problems. so contribute freely. but learn to accept criticism gracefully because others may share your views yet

cooleo SG

This fox also one kind la. NB....disturb us from reading the fantastic Kiekie's 'X-FILES'.

(WHO'S NEXT TO CHUP ONE LEG?! Mad )

fymk SG

Everyone made mistakes in their life. Most importantly , they must learn from it.
Kiekie , your story is quite controversial - there might be people taking offence from it. There will always be someone disagreeing with how your life went. One thing is to hold your head high and move on to the next stage of your life. If you feel that you cannot make peace with yourself regarding the abortion - talk to a counsellor . Might help - may not help - but at least get it out of your system. Most importantly - move on.

Foxwalk - you might feel offended reading her story . Fair enough . we are only human . I don't think reminding her of her abortion is constructive at all . She sounds guilty , judging from her words - probably this is just abit therapeutic for her to reflect back on her life .

Something could come out good of her story - someone else reading , might be going to make the same mistake - and then her story could have prevented that person from the mistake. We just don't know.

foxwalk SG

she started by saying that she welcomes all comments, and when i posted something sarcastic "looking for another bf cuz she got dumped" (as inspired from the lame way she dates all her r/s. look at it. it's one after another. i dun think this kid knows what's love in the first place. i don't claim to know it all, but at least i'm not the kind of wise idiot to begin one r/s right after one ends), she reacted in all crazy ways. i posted 2 lines, she bombed me paragraphs with my names in caps. she gained public sympathy thru inciting public hate for me. oh well. she can do that. i don't have sympathy for people with low intellect, i'm sorry but that's me. she can't eve see the difference between sarcasm and "cursing and swearing". in fact she swore at me like i dunno how many times.

i din think she needed help so why is she posting there anyway? note that i dun like people who post nonsense as replies in aunt agony. however i feel that what is she doing there, but showcasing her r/s for all to see her as desirable.

i think all her mistakes are her own doing.

and if you looked back at how she replied to me with her "i dont think u even had anyone before", she obviously is someone who prides herself on having many relationships, and looks down (for whatever stupid reason there might be) on others who've had fewer or none.

it's none of anyone's concern if i'm attached, i don't think she should even ask in the 1st place. if it satisfies her curiosity, yes i'm happily attached. and i'm NOT the kind who rebounds so quickly.

because i do know more about love than her, despite not having an impressive r/s resume.

i'm sorry but i really cannot tolerate those who seek sympathy and have a rational intelligence that appears to mismatch her chronological age.

to kiekie, sorry i posted here again though i said i would not.

kiekie SG

u r really stupid... i was calling u cretin, not Shake_Spear... proves my point that you just have sub normal intelligence..hahahahah

if u wana post it, post it in the threads then, u dun have to pm me fox.

MeoW_MeoW SG

meow! cat fight still on-going... Mr. Green

*me siam fast* Razz

kiekie SG

i dun think this kid knows what's love in the first place. i don't claim to know it all, but at least i'm not the kind of wise idiot to begin one r/s right after one ends)

(all humans made mistakes, one canot be rational at all times i supposed.)

she gained public sympathy thru inciting public hate for me. oh well. she can do that. i don't have sympathy for people with low intellect, i'm sorry but that's me. she can't eve see the difference between sarcasm and "cursing and swearing". in fact she swore at me like i dunno how many times.

(yah, i admitted i did, and so did u? then wat do u expect? me to thanks u for saying tat i muz be killed by my current bf juz bcuz i was to busy to update my threads? If tat pleases u, ok thanks fox for ur comment. I really duno wat u want from me.........................................)

i din think she needed help so why is she posting there anyway? note that i dun like people who post nonsense as replies in aunt agony. however i feel that what is she doing there, but showcasing her r/s for all to see her as desirable.

(This is Aunt Agony..wat have I done to deserve all these from u? )

i think all her mistakes are her own doing. (Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I agreed with u)

and if you looked back at how she replied to me with her "i dont think u even had anyone before", she obviously is someone who prides herself on having many relationships, and looks down (for whatever stupid reason there might be) on others who've had fewer or none.

(excuse me, I nv ever meant tat.)

it's none of anyone's concern if i'm attached, i don't think she should even ask in the 1st place. if it satisfies her curiosity, yes i'm happily attached. and i'm NOT the kind who rebounds so quickly.

(pls lor, I didnt even ask if u had a bf.. )

because i do know more about love than her, despite not having an impressive r/s resume.

( how can u compare ur own r/s with others? Its totally different..)

i'm sorry but i really cannot tolerate those who seek sympathy and have a rational intelligence that appears to mismatch her chronological age.

to kiekie, sorry i posted here again though i said i would not.

(I supposed thats y u pm me instead of posting here. )

kiekie SG

i really duno when u r going to stop all these..............................and make me wonder how ur bf can tahan a gf like u when u both quarrel. Never ending....

yah, i know after reading this, u r sure going to explode again. I m prepared.......... liao. i think u got some attitude problem or watever.

wats wrong wif u huh? this is my life leh, canot change the past mah, wat do u espect me to do? u wana turn back the times for me issit?

pysche SG

Fox can make peace with kiekie bcos i feel that different ppl have different mindset and tends to overlook thing at different angle so juz make peace then you got more friends ma....
Make more frenz better then more enemy ma rite Very Happy

droopyeyes SG

hmm..don't mind if i say this.
although this is aunt agony, you suppose to get all the nice advices/counselling blah blah, i felt that foxwalk wasn't in wrong.

she's providing her point of view.. and this is very important in reality (not just in forums). this is how people out there are looking at u.. they could be consoling this minute, but thinking otherwise.

like many have stated that different people have different mindset/perceptions, you can't expect everyone to empathise you or sympathise u.

hope you all don't argue anymore.. i guess kiekie is blessed with happiness right now. so, not more arguments ok? Smile

Magnus SG

Yes, this is a forum, your exploits are opened for all to see. You should be expecting both good or not so good responses.

I would guess you have way way too much freedom.

- To have have so many relationship at such a young age.
- 'O' levels are very important, my parents would break my legs if my studies slide.
- To have casual sex and 2 abortions?

Where your parents when you have all this problems?

In my parent's words, it call 'Zi Ai' or 'self respect for ownself'.
What's the world coming to now??

foxwalk SG

that's exactly my point!
i appreciate that there are some fair minded pple. there may be fewer of such pple speaking up for fairness in here, but for what it's worth, empty vessels do make the most sound.

reasons that i do not sympathize:
1) obviously poster does not know what love is for her to jump into one right after it ends almost everytime. if u truly cared about someone you wouldn't be able to do that so quickly.

2) have sex with pple despite thinking they're losers... use a vibrator for god sakes if u must..

3) she's not manipulated by one single bf to have 2 abortions... she did it with 2 different men. shows she's either desperate, or has no brains

4) she's not even from a broken family. all is well and nice and her family seems supportive to me. i pity her mum. despite being so supportive, she still gets someone like her for a daughter

5) 8 relationships??? u took so many to figure out what went wrong??? i would think someone sensible would have learned her lesson after one abortion. if she's had only one, i can make my peace with that.

6) and pleas, learn some new words.. don't swear at me and call me "ass" or some simple word a kindergarten kid could've used and then turn ard and say i'm swearing at you. like i said, sarcasm is lost on pple like kk.

7) only pple who cannot argue must bring in other pple. i dun think at any poitn did i insult your mother or bfs, but u insulted mine..

PS: Shake_spear told me he's laughing behind your back for being such a moron and advised me against arguing with you since all point would be lost on someone like you who only after 8 long years, and 2 abortions, finally
leanred (or claimed to) her mistakes.

as always, a little education for the little one screaming "ASS"--

A day is lost if one has not laughed. - French (on the conduct of life)

thanks for all the laughs.... bring them on baby.. or oops am i banned from saying this word now...

last i checked, singapore is still a free country...

i'd never at any one point told u to stop talking in here... but you and your khakis keep rallying for tt... well.. unless u get the PAP to change the constitution, i will not do that.

here's a link for you to look up the word "constitution"

http://dictionary.reference.com/

go nuts!

Mr. Green

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