how to see ne?

fondsphere SG

arlow i got one qn ah.

may i know how girls see if e guy chasing them is good or not? good as in the guys character n personality and how to see they are not putting up a false front? like whenever u ask them a moral qn they will ans morally but how to know he really thinks that way ne?

icyprincess SG

see how he behaves around his frens. and ask around ppl who know him...just talk to him more, i dun believe a person can hide his true personality for long...

i.c.y

ditzy SG

Talk is cheep, actions speak louder. Laughing

No_Problemo SG

but beware everyone have 2 face, the left and the right side are not totally symetrical Confused

icyprincess SG

yea, so if she asks around his frens and they told her he has a different personality, then she will know he has more than one face Mr. Green

i.c.y

No_Problemo SG

if he use to talk to his friend with the same side as he use to talk to her then how ?

OldAhPek SG

spend a few weeks observing lo.......
see how he behave in situations
like... if kanna knocked by ppl
what he saysor do, under some unpleasent situations

beware of those who always sweet talk
if a guy really likes u, then he will be a little reserve(shy)
those super mushy one, something is wrong le
coz they are lau jiao
lolz.....

gerrykoh SG

Yes by observation.
See how he acts in front of friends & family- whether he badmouth people, stingy or petty, whether he keeps his word.
Also get feedback from people who knows him.
It will take months & years to actually see his true nature.

[email protected] SG

aiya very difficult one la...esp if he likes u also...he sure hide himself in front one...unless u realin go and find out from his friends lo...and his friends may also be hiding for him...so its better u find out yourself...

maybe u can hear the way he talked? if he is very rough he wil try hard to hide those words (f*** kinda ting). Then u will know whether his personality good or not..but of cos who say guys tat scold bad words must be bad? its oni the way they speak...but i guess most gals don like (unless its ah beng and ah lian?)

anway good luck Very Happy

Devil1976 SG

SUBJECTIVE.

boyboy18 SG

Action speaks louder then words Neutral

[email protected]_arms SG

Girls like a guy based on chemistry/attractive hormonal stuff than just how he behaves and personality. If the guy acts like a gay faggot then the girl will dismiss him as a candidate, but if the guy acts robust and confident, the girl will consider him as candidate. I've seen many nice guys who not confident get brushed away by girls they try t chase. While i have seen many BAD druggy boys get accepted by girls they chase because they are WHOA! HERO!! Confident!

If a girl considers a guy as candidate, then that is called score. Score leads to dating, kissing, and all that short run relationship entails

. Double score is when the girl then analyses his character and stuff, this is in the long run mode where a girl will grapple between her sexual attraction for him vs her logical (girl's illogic) assessment of his more lousy characteristics. Veyr few relationships make it to the double score stage.

pete98 SG

Wah this sounds like 'don't do it like that die but do it also die' Mr. Green

'm back SG

get hime ISO certified. Mr. Green