How u average girls respond to guys?

last SG · 2004-12-07T18:51:04+00:00

What if (a) means wat? Like very little ppl choose A….

[email protected]_arms SG

If a guy wants to ask u out, i.e. smes u to ask when ur free and stuff. If u like him u would obviously acknowledge and determine a time and stuff right?

Now if u do not like him and want him to piss off, being local and shy and shit.. which of the following would u do?

(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c) : Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d) blatantly say piss off creep

Most likely would be (C) or (A) right? Coz of traditional confucian CME niceness and racial indirectness correct? (despite globalisation).

amuletgurl SG

i choose (b)

(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free

seriously....im quite direct n a couple of months ago,this HKie guy in my gym asked me out persistantly till i got so annoyed that he just could not accept no and so then i told him im wont be free...ever...

pescar SG

i'm a guy but i tink girls wil choose option C because they like to haf the attention of guys and being able to show that someone is actually interested in them and they dun wanna lose tt feeling so soon..

well tt doesnt apply to all girls because of course there are good ones out thr who are really into relationship and will nvr do tis kinda ting...

care bear SG

If I know the guy - friend or acquaintance or friend of friend then will be A or C.
If I dont know the fella - total stranger then will be D.

wetlips SG

i'd choose e)

(a): Not reply any smses of him
(b): keep on telling him (replying) that u r never free
(c): Lead him on by saying u will let him know when u are free.. but in the end never reply.
(d): blatantly say piss off creep
(e): reply with "I am guy, you gay!"

foxwalk SG

doesnt work to try to get advce from the very same pple u r swearing at,,

wetlips SG

tell me this is a fox talk...

[email protected]_arms SG

*shrugs*.. Blow me.

[email protected]_arms SG

okie my verdict of all local girls would be C then. Thanks/

[email protected]_arms SG

alright i take that back. I'm sorry. I guess i woke up on the wrong side o da bed this mornin..

huiz SG

er...wat does this line mean?

[email protected]_arms SG

it means i am/was in a foul mood today.

huiz SG

cook up an excuse to turn it down. if he persistently continues smsing me, & he still dun get it, i will be annoyed & may reply him like: 'u very free hor....keep smsing me asking me to go out'.

hopes he get the hint wifout making me deal him a full impact. Rolling Eyes

NeonTetra SG

wha....so 'hen xin'

huiz SG

i oso dun hope to give him a full impact...but most sensible guys shld get the msg after being turned down so many times, rite? if a girl really wanna go out wif u, she wun turn u down so many times. even if she is really busy but still want to go out wif u, she will say something like 'today cannot, but i am free tomorrow.'

LilO gIrL SG

Dun like him? Make things clear to him. Dun make him wait for a reply.

A direct rejection is what I would do most of the time. But can still be friends.

01024G SG

I would choose (a).

No need to waste a SMS doing this sort of things. If I do not know you, do not need to bother about doing this kind of things. I probably just save the number in my contact list and next time when I see the number, I just delete the message right away.

shade343 SG

None of the choices are pleasant. So moral of the story is NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT BY SMS. IT SHOWS COWARDICE AND REFLECTS ON THE PERSON"S LACK OF SELF CONFIDENCE. Best is to approach the girl directly and ask her out in the most charming voice you have Very Happy

MeoW_MeoW SG

some gals are really shy... so they will only go for group outings or double dates... depends on the gal laa... cannot just choose a b c or d Mr. Green

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[email protected]_arms SG

DAmmit your right! How could i have been such a mouse?! Twisted Evil

But then again, other girls tell me i sound like a girl on the phone, which erodes me self confidence.. Crying or Very sad

But then agaiN? FUck them, im good and larger and better looking than most of their local alternatives, i'll be ALL THAT I CAN BE and give her a CALL voice to VOICE to ask if she's free on a SPECIFIC date and time for an event. YEAH! Twisted Evil

however.. i've prolly used up all her patience by asking her the 1st time via sms.. so maybe i shan't bother.. Wink

But wait. I've got nothing to LOSE ffs!

Oh man this is so confusing..lol