Hi guys, reading through these forums, there seems2b soom great
people offering some great advice. i'm in need of this now..i've
had my heart broken and don't know whether to repair it with the
person who broke it or let time be the key..... here's my story,
thanks
6 months ago, i met the most amazing girl, who was just coming out
of a difficult 5year relationship, which i helped her through in a
gentleman-like manner. We knew we liked eachother and i helped her
from being trapped and helped her mentally to be free from all the
pain and hurt.
Thereafter, we both couldn't hide our feelings and over the last 2
months, have shared the most amazin time together in eachother's
company. life really could not of been better, and we soon knew we
were in love with one another and we had everything, not one aspect
could be better.
From being in a couple of deep relationships before, i know that i
am not being naive to the feelings we have, they are true, and
better than anything. (were)
However, last week, her ex came ova one evening to return and pick
up some things, and he tricked her, acted like everything she had
ever wanted out of their relationship, want, desire, affection, and
with this hold he had built up on her, tricked her into spending
the night together.
I was told (by her) the morning after, and have been absolutely
devastated over this xmas period, i've hardly been able to breath
or do anything.
She has been the same, and could not feel any worse about what
happened, and so realises what she's done and is frightened that
she's lost me, and now realises what i meant to her.
My dilemma, is my battle between my head and my heart. my heart
doesn't want to lose the fantastic time we shared, but my morals
and dignity are also fighting to say no.
She knows that she only wants me, but is it too late now... i don't
want to lose her, and trust her (Where i wouldn't usually) that she
is so sorry and believe it can make her a better person for me..
but don't know what to d, i don't want to be weak, but don't want
to lose her, I do love her, and I know and she does now that she
loves me too and doesnt wan to be without me
shes so
sorry
.
What should I do
..?
