It's her again...but what shld i do?

GrimR SG

I recently was waiting at the bus stop for my usual bus. When I saw this girl. Well, I was looking at her, when she suddenly looked up and gazed into my eyes for a few seconds. I felt quite paiseh Embarassed so I quickly looked away. Later, we continued to steal glances at each other until her bus arrived first.
Well, I met her again the other day, and I'm sure she recognised me. The same thing happened again. I have this feeling that I should approach her and make friends. But I'm rather shy, so I wanna ask u guys for some advice.
She's studying a diffrent course from mine, so I don't know when I'll get the chance to see her again. So I wanna seize the next opportunity, not gonna let it slip by. Wink A female fren suggested I write a note and pass it to her.

skeujin SG

jus walk up to her n say 'hi'

wats wrng with the world 2day? has the art of simple conversation been lost to technology? Rolling Eyes

spaded SG

yup. strike up a convo.

Guilmon1987 SG

Stealing glances are deceiving. I've been stealing glances at my crush for 5 years already and when I finally plucked up the courage to chase her, she starts to ignore my SMSes.

Camellias4me SG

Eye contact Smile "Hi.." *Smile smile smileee~!* Embarassed Mr. Green

_Aaron_ SG

As Guimon said... stealing glances are deceiving.

Though if i were to suggest boldly, next time look at her and hold her stare, until she looks away first.

And the next time she looks over, go over and strike up a conversation.

Go towards her with the thought of
"So what if i mess this up? I don't lose anything anyway."
And
"If i do this right, i may end up actually getting to know her at last!"

It works both ways, positively like that.

Well, good luck~

-mist- SG

yeah use those killer smile..and when boarding e bus..*if same bus* say hi or sit beside her Very Happy if nt..hi lo 2 her =) actually i same situaiton as u..met tis ger everday at train..nv tok..she was a year older den mi though..manage 2 get her hp no. frm fren..but she ignore it Crying or Very sad

Li Ka Shing SG

U just approach her when u have the chance....make small talk first...dont do anything big or u might scare her.....do this a few times....then slowly....u two will be friends....

u have to overcome ur initial shyness....believe me, as long as u are trying to make small talk only, nothing major will screw up....so just go there and take action....

Overcome ur initial shyness.....it's hard the first time....but u must persevere and win against ur shyness.....u r a man, must be brave a bit, understand?

OK good luck...

mahai102 SG

take our your lanjiao & show her....if she bends down & sucks it...you're in for a good time... Laughing

droopyeyes SG

say...

"Hi! you looked familiar... are you...."

ahhaa. u can try cooking up a story. but it's a good try. better than try to make friends just like that. =P

SunRisE SG

writing a note is good..
if she noticed that you always at the bus stop.. and there you ahve eyes contact with her... approach her.. if you dare.. anyway.. is jus about making and knowing more friends..

Cheers.. Wink