And the full post...
of cos i noe its not easy to be a parent, but since they want to be
one, den train themselves .. parents or rather adults also says to
us ' which parents dun love their child ' is that the foolish
excuse they're givin themselves to save trouble and time to nuture
their own child ? lovin a child is not giving him/her whatever
he/she wants .. but to let him/her grow up in a healthy family with
a lovely childhood and to get forgivessness when they makes
mistakes and not beatin them up just for that moments anger
..
well, u can say just bcos i've not been a parent, so i can say so
much .. in a family, every one needs to play a part, i admit i've
not been a good daughter and sister .. but i've done what i could
.. it always takes two hands to clap .. whats the point if im
committed ? it takes a man and a woman to b committed den they can
get married .. whats e point if only e man or only e woman is
committed ? see what im trying to drive at ?
no matter how badly a teenager makes a mistake, its always e
parents' fault .. y ? when a child grows up, of cos he/she will use
his/her parents to lead an example of what they should and should
not do .. therefore, whenever a teenager is at fault, of cos the
teenager is oso at fault, but i believe that his/her parents are
mostly at fault ..
nowadays communication is lackin everywhere .. parents always
believe that their kids are too immatured to understand what
they're going through .. but have they ever tried sharin just abit,
simple worries with their own kids ? if u dun try, how will you noe
if they're really capable of understandin ?
i really duno what parents have in mind .. of cos every parents
want their kids to grow up, matured, responsible, isnt their duty
to teach them den ? why are they always only knowin how to scold
and beat their kids when their kids made a mistake ?
i seriously believe that now parents must really take some effort
to understand their own kids, be patient and lovin to them ..
