DarlingAngel SG Just telling u a story from my friend. (Give so comment abt the story) He love a girl at the first sight when he was sec 1 then they begin to be friend slowly ... they start go stead. but after a month they broke off. This girl is very flirt but this guy wait patiently for this girl. when the girl broke off with her bf. she will go back to this guy . when she find any new bf she will leave this guy. The funny relationship last for 4 yrs. They finally leave their secondary school. but this guy never stop waiting for this girl whenever this girl need help he will always be there for her. But this girl rejected all his patch back request. I think for 9yrs ba.. this poor guy being reject by this girl for 9 yrs and waiting for her for 9 yrs. He finally give up and now this guy got a very good gf not only that the girl and guy became very good friend.. (Sorry my english not very good)
_Aaron_ SG Your friend is very patient to have waited for 9 years. Especially when no future between them can be seen. Well, some conclusions that i can draw are: 1) He really likes the girl(from sec 1? I don't think any of us knew what love was at that age) 2) He's stubborn and doesn't like to give up. 3) Its the first girl that he's fallen for, and he doesn't want to let go. I'm just glad that he has given up. It would be really sad to see a 50 year old saying ... 'i've waited for this girl for 37 years.. and i'm still waiting.' To me, there's no point giving so many years of my life to someone that does'nt appreciate me. That's my view.
DarlingAngel SG I'm just glad that he has given up. It would be really sad to see a 50 year old saying ... 'i've waited for this girl for 37 years.. and i'm still waiting.' [/b]Wah... you must have love that girl alot alot...
alien_04 SG Hmmm, maybe the guy has other gal friends but just that he find them not suitable until this ONE gal came along. You must have very strong determination to really wait for a person... I can say: I'm waiting for this so and so to come back. But who knows when THE ONE came along, you realise it's time to let go and be with this person whom you are predestined to be.
_Aaron_ SG I think i get what you're trying to say... Is it, "Since there are no other girls in my life now, i just wait for her lor, til someone comes in?" I'm like that, just that no girl for me to wait for right now. Waiting for the one~~
Yunhaier SG Likely karmic relationship with heavy affliction on his side towards her. P.S: Is he is Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius or Taurus? Cheers
yonghao SG since i sec 1(1993) i fall in love with a classmate, she knew i like her so much until today even during sec 4 she have a bf i also never give up. but today we are still friend.
MunnaBhai_MBBS SG Dont give up dude, cos life's unpredictable..Some things which u shoved away into that old closet may resurface again...
Gackt247 SG at least he finally found his happiness.. the guy so chi1 qing2.. reminds me of nightyoung.. mr nice guys.. duno why always get explioted..
subzero_baby SG waiting for someone for 9yrs... can imagine the pain... but love can't be forced. If he were to accept the fact that they were meant to be friends, he might have found his love earlier and wasted less time. I have this guy waiting for me for 7yrs... now still waiting. I always tell him to find other love but he dun want. wat can i do? i already told him that we are impossible- no chemistry. sometimes we think that by "waiting" for a person is one way to prove our love and at the end of the day, he/ she will be touched.. not true lor... i once only waited for his ex for 1 yr.... he didn't return by then, i'm gone. Not as to get attached with some other guy but to put this relationship behind and move on. Now this guy still calls me now and then. I lost a relationship but salvage a friendship. Better than nothing...
devoid05 SG why bother to wait? unrequitted love is the worst kind of love... if i can't find the one i love... i will just marry the one who loves me.
