What to do when a girl suddenly starts crying?

last SG · 2004-12-23T03:25:51+00:00

Thanks for the wonderful advice. I'll keep that in mind =_="'

_Aaron_ SG

No i don't really have the answers since its different for everyone, but what would you do if the girl is a/an : -
1) Friend of yours
2) Good friend.
2) Accquaintence
3) Stranger you met on the streets.
4) Sister
5) Cousin

You get the idea~

What would you do? Girls welcome to give comments as to what a guy should do ^_^

ditzy SG

2 tight slaps on the face for all the above. I gurantee you they forgot they were crying, and in no time you have to worry for your own life. Laughing

spaded SG

from the crying girl's point of view..
- leave me alone!
- just keep quiet and let me cry on your shoulder
- give me a hug.

_Aaron_ SG

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Well, at least its an answer from a completely different view.. Rolling Eyes

foxwalk SG

girl here says kiss away the tears if you are the bf.
Very Happy

dumbdumb! SG

hahahah!!! Laughing

dumbdumb! SG

friend.. just sit/stand beside that person and wait till she stops sobbing, then ask what happen

good friend.. ask what happen straight away

accquaintence... "oei, you ok or not.."

stranger on the street.. "song boh, someone died ah?"

sister.. "mum....!!"

cousin... "AUNTY!!!"

MeoW_MeoW SG

who ever it is, there are only 2 choices... wait beside her or walk away immediately... Mr. Green

jusgal SG

sit besides her and lend her my shoulders

Mr. Green

feenix SG

Maybe you can try to (if you must, force yourself to) look really concerned, look straight at her - and asks her what's the matter, and does she want to talk? Then just listen... hehe....
If you are close, you can hug her or just pat her shoulder will be fine....
If she flares up don't take it personally, shes probably just PMSy Smile if she looks like she just wants to be alone, eg turning away from you etc... maybe a simple, "take care, all right?" will be fine in tis case i guess... Wink

Crystal_Dumpling SG

HUGS! HUGS MAKE THE WORLD GO ROUND! Razz

Unless you're not very close to her.

BrUtUs SG

all of above -> go ask wassup Cool

the Bear SG

uhh.. if you're a guy, and may be the cause of it, run the hell away.. a different time zone if possible Laughing

nOrmalbOi SG

mhmm...

pris? =X

boy in blues SG

assuming she is really very depressed.......

doesn't have to be a gal. even guys cry too. just say something like "i know how hard it is holding back the tears. so i always feel better after letting it all out. we can both work this out together. don't worry....... "

thinger SG

slap her

harharhhar

spaded SG

if a guy cries i'll gape. Surprised

Camellias4me SG

1st thing to do offer ur hankie or tisu paper

Friend/Gd friend: Simi Daiji??? Wats wrong??? Tell mi!!
Acquaintance/Stranger: R u Ok? Need help?
Sister/Cousin: Siao ah! Cry 4 wat? Razz

From there, after u analyse the prob den render help. If prob can't b helped, den u offer ur shoulders & hugs (console)?

o(O.o)o SG

1) Friend of yours - Pat or put my arm around, her shoulder and ask her what's wrong..

2) Good friend. - mebbe let her cry on moi shoulders bahx.if close enuf a hug outta help her feel betta.

2) Accquaintence - keep quiet all e way till she's done and then ask her what's wrong

3) Stranger you met on the streets. - O.o (stare blankly)

4) Sister - Don't cry lah siao. (blood sis)

5) Cousin - Si mi tai ji?

of course, if the girl's going nuts it might be advisable to stay a considerable/safe distance away from her..even if you do have insurance..

pipi & poot-poot SG

No matter who d lady is....

Stop to ask if everything's fine....