When we go thru our lives with an unconscious agreement to only
grow 'Conditionally', we rob ourselves of so many wonderful
blessings and opportunities that are awaiting for us at the other
side of our fear.
You have to succumb ur fear of getting lost in a r/s, fear of
losing her, fear of being alone, etc.
Learn to let go of ur pains and moves towards more goodness, more
truth and more freedom.
I mean in life, change is
inevitable. if u choose to resist change, holds on too
tightly and refuses to let go, u r only depriving urself all the
new gifts life has waiting for u.
I know letting go is nv easy and naturally u feel tat u will end up
with nothing. Basically, this seed of fear in u is groundless. Deep
inside, you knew it, and u have no evidence in ur life tat this is
the way things turn out, isn't it?
Think abt it;
"So many times when u thought u were
losing someone/thing valuable, someone/thing much greater has come
along."
"So many times when u r forced to let go of someone/thing u thought
u cudn't live without, u ended up with someone/thing far better
than u had ever imagined was possible."
We grow most from difficulties and not
as much from the good times. Everything in ur life can wakes
u up or put u to sleep and basically, it's up to u to let it wakes
u up. Every exit is an entry to somewhere else.