I dun know, my father said he got plans . When my mum told you
that interests will be very high he kept Quiet. Also , he seem to
always ask my mother to work harder, get a longer hour job and high
pay. But when its time for my father to contribute cpf to pay or
cash, he kept quiet. so its like he divert all the funds from my
mother instead. And these made a lot of people very unhappy. Also,
long time ago, he used to spit at our doorstep when he goes out to
work and scold this scold that. When we quarrel , he hides in the
room , when we talk very valid reasons, he just lose his temper and
start screaming and yelling like a mad dog. he never talks or
debate properly like a gentleman, but always screams until the
whole block can hear. Sometimes he will bring other people embarass
moments into the fight. Got one time, he re-act the scence by
kneeing down and this and that. Totally bullshit and crzy. got one
time, he called the police and said that my brother threw things on
the floor. The police also shake his head and nothing happens. Te
police asked me whether either party got mental problems or not?
How am I going to answer?
Last time when we stayed at 3rm flat. My father is not that bad and
cares about the family like giving my mum extra cash for new year,
new clothing,etc. After we move it, things go haywire, he stop
caring, Like my mother wants to go checkup, my father ask her to
pay herself, totally "BO CHAP" . He also everytime ask my mother to
borrow from her sister but he kept all the money herself. My aunt
even scolded my father "Shame on You" that's y he doesn't dare to
go to her house anymore.
Tried spoken to my mum about talking to a councillar about the
problems and they might give us better suggestions. But she doesn't
want. Everyone is falling apart.... think seriously I might have
been affected quite emotionaly already.... If you say my father is
crazy but he still can bluff my mum and scold her "Why you never
die yet" My mum took care of his paralysed grandma for 10years, he
said he will pay her back but all the time my mum got back was
spitting, quarrel, kenna conned,etc......
Really sad. Hope that you guys understand. I really dunno what to
do already.....
