Me & My lover

leo gal SG

skinnybeanie SG

i strongly disagree with you what you are doing.
U totally disregard the sanctity of marriage and have no respect for yours and his family.

M©+square SG

You know that it's wrong but yet this affair is irresistable.
Because both you and your lover are of the same kind.
There's two side of the coin. aka TwoFace...

You're a person who's satisfied with your husband, but the sexual thrills and adventures recieved from your lover is something you desire but could never be attained from your husband.

I'm not sure who(your lover or you) initiates the affair everytime.
But it seems like this knotty situation could not be resolved unless until either side felt sick of another and this game will stop.

You on the other hand will be made used of. Physically and emotionally.
Don't know if you're feeling that way now...but even if you do. If You can't help falling into those acts. You'll be at most disadvantage in the end.

Try seeing your husband as the ultimate authority and the one man in your life. Allow no one to touch your body other then your life partner. Hopefully it'll save yourself from further troubles.

Cheers

leo gal SG

_Aaron_ SG

It'll be easier if you place your family right at the top of your priorities, and tell him in the face that you two should return to your families. After all, what you're doing is morally wrong.

A hard way of looking at it would be to envision you being in the position of your husband, and what would you do if you found out that he has been sleeping with other women?

If your sex life isn't exciting enough, buy the kama sutra, or other books that teaches on different techniques/styles of having sex. I'm sure your husband wouldn't mind, since you're his queen.~

Hope you get out of your unhealthy habit soon~

cooleo SG

Your hubby impotent? Ask him to give u a good screwing (lierally pun intended).

(WHO'S NEXT TO GET SCREWED?! Mad )

Devil1976 SG

Spice up your sexual and emotional life with your husband.... Cool

blowfish SG

THINKING and doing is two different things... how can u do this behind yr hubby even he treated u like a queen. no word can describe u. Evil or Very Mad

biangz SG

Eh..
U liddat hor den sibey buay song liaoz lor..

Wah biangz, ur hubby treat u so nice den u liddat 'betray' him..
Imagine ur hubby do the same to u..
U feel gd anot?

the Bear SG

tell you what.. you SAY you love your family...

how much do you love them?

enough to walk away from your job, your "lover"?

if you do not walk away from your lover, how much do you seriously love them?

i'd say not very much.. if at all...

for love, a person would move mountains and not think it too hard...

for them, there is only one route to take...

you know what it is...

now.. go do it...

for their sakes...

RETARDED_MORON SG

Cheating is wrong. Just remember that.

sgboy2004 SG

look who is toking after how he treated his ex..haiz

kiekie SG

[quote]Originally posted by leo gal:
[b]My ex-bf who is now my present boss cum lover, we used to have an affair when both of us are attached and till now, I'm married with a kid and he's attached with gf, we still meet up to make love.

May i know how old r u and how old is ur child?

I don't really understand myself Confused , wat i want and why i do tat. My husband has been treating me like queen (in life and in bed), love and care for our family but somehow, i still misses my lover.

And den y did u marry ur husband in the 1st place?

My lover too has a perfect gf who treat him like a king and helping him in his business, so why he still wanna meet me?

because u r very siao on

Does anyone here agree on wat we are doing?! Question

In ur heart, u should jolly well knew and be prepared tat most of us here wud strongly oppose ur doings.

U mentioned tat ur husband treats u so well(in life and in bed), so wat does ur marriage lacks of?

do u tink ur husband will divorce u when he found out abt ur affair?
and wat if he do not want the custody of ur child?
who is going to carry ur burden? ur ex-bf cum present boss cum lover ?

who knows he's there for ur meat my dear, which hungry guy wud reject a free lunch?

Walk out of it asap.............dragging it wud not make things better........ dun forget, u still have a child to call u mummy and a loving husband who treats u as his bao bei lao po.

This is the life u had chosen to lead(to marry the guy whom ur child call daddy), dun make another mistake for the sake of ur family. No place is like home.

M©+square SG

I agree that there's a big IF in your situation. Even if he does want only sexual thrills, don't you think you want it the same?

You know your moral conduct/act is wrong.
All you have to understand is that these conducts ain't worth it.
Just like a habit which is hard to break out of...you got to practice control. If possible...quit your job and stay away from him.

Cheers

the Bear SG

this is AA...

don't drag your mindless vendetta here..

besides, you don't know a thing Wink

MeoW_MeoW SG

if you truly want to stop this, please find another job... Wink

~Lyn~ SG

like wat aaron said wat u did is morally wrong.. since u noe it's more for sexual thrills den be disciplined and get out fo this r/s.. it would help if u stop contacting ur lover and quit that job.. wat the rest suggested helps too like spicing up ur sex life wif ur husband.. organising outings for ur family will further enhance ur r/s wif them.. basically juz spending more time wif ur family will draw ur attention away frm ur lover.. good luck! Very Happy

GTO SG

Since u say u know wat u want and y u do tt, then wat more is there to say?
Obviously ur lover is GIAN SONG just like u~
Thrill lah~ spices up the boring life a bit more~

I dun agree or disagree coz I dun blif in watever MORAL shit~
If most ppl got morals, no need law liao~
Bottomline is, be ready to face the consequences loh~
Have u thought of the various possibilities?
Dun wait until something undesirable happen liao then cry father cry mother~

Magnus SG

Like what Meow said, change job. If possible.

Work synergy gone overboard.
Your boss abuse it, and you, a willing partner.
Best is leave the job as the first step to end it.

Stop all this if you value your family.

LilO gIrL SG

You have two choices.

1) carry on and enjoy the thrills with your lover and get nothing out of it eventually.

2) Be prepared that your hubby finds out and a family-break up.