Some guys r lidat, genie. Mayb he's used to hanging ard with u
and feels threatened when u went out with ur frenz. He felt
neglected.
Sometimes, guys juz dun like to join his gf outings wif her own
frenz.
Cuz mayb they feel paisay, bored or boliao or watever reasons they
might be; which cud be a headache for girls, cuz we will nv
understand why.
But i can tell u this guy whom u describe as POssessive, definitely
LOVEs himself more than loving u. Cuz he's selfish, only tink of
himself 1st. I mean, r/s at times need space to breathe mah, go out
wif frenz oso cannot..sighz....
I know how u feel, its like whenever u had a gathering wif ur
frenz, wah, u r so happy. but when coming to tell him abt it, u
feel sian. cuz u noe he surely spoil ur day and he did!
I think u should have a good talk wif him, regardless of how things
wud end up. I mean couples do quarrel and its common.
Try not to jump onto conclusion tat he dun like u to go out with ur
kakis..listen to wat he has got to say..
Since both of u already applied for a flat and r gettin married, i
dun see y u canot talk to him abt this kind of problem. If u r
having doubts abt ur marriage, u have to solve it asap.
The problem lies wif u, seriously. Its whether u mind anot, can u
tahan him for the rest of ur life anot? 6yrs already dun tell me
now then u noe wat kind of person ur man is.
When he dun bother abt u, u feel tat he love u less, if he care too
much abt u, u feel tat he is possessive. then wat do u want from
him? U have to let him know how u feel to make ur r/s work
better.
