Well... this is kinda normal thing to happen. If you do read and
study a lot about man and woman's mental profile, you will realise
that possessive is often caused by insecurity and lack of confident
and trust. Well, take your time to figure it out what causes him to
behave like these.
As for your problem, well, some guys are like these. They demand to
know the truth.. and yet, they can't handle the truth. Sometimes, a
little white lies would help.. as long as he don't find out. Often,
if you are not a good and tactful person to create white lies..
then don't use this approach.
The people whom we love and loves us are the one who shapes us.
There is very little chance of anyone to let go of their friends
for just one person. Being tactful is very important to your
relationship when it comes to him. Communicating your feelings and
being honest won't really help if he is insecured and lack
confident.
Try this approach, it may help.
1. Ask him nicely if he has any program for certain date.
2. If no, ask him with all respect, if he minds you going out with
your friends.
3. If he says yes, then humbly accept his request and don't even
need to ask why. Just tell him, he has to tell you all his schedule
and if ever you don't like, he must comply as well.
4. Chances are, he will ask you why are you doing this instead.
Then.. tell him, the same reason he is doing it to you.
5. If he insists that you meet his friends, tell him, he knew none
of your friends.
5. If he gets the msg, good for you. If not, things will get very
very interesting.
Thing is this, a relationship needs leverage at times. Otherwise,
you may as well get an Sony Aibo and treat it as your hubby.. or
simply be as obedient to him as if he has got himself a Sony
Aibo.
Try try and see...
