Borgkilla, I really feel sorry for u....
If u two really want to give the relationship another try, then try
really hard. Doubly hard. Coz u two have to overcome a major scar.
Spend more time together, communicate more, go to counsellors, find
a religion together, etc.
It might be possible to heal over time. You two might grow closer
and the relationship takes a deeper level after this major
test.
So.....give ur best efforts ok.....
Meanwhile, hire some professional mobs to beat up ur friend, burn
down his house, cut off his dic*, throw acid on his face, and kill
his pets.
Better still, think of a major plan to frame him and make him go to
jail. Spend ur time thinking and scheming, and give all ur energy,
effort, time, and money, to make him suffer, big time. Im
serious.
After u have returned him the favour, u will feel much better.