Hmm, maybe he's taking you for granted, and his god-sis means
more to him then you.
But i don't know about the abuse part. I am one of those who say
and mean it when we do not beat women. Its those who SAY it, and
mean something else, that brings down our name...
Its good that that man is dead is your heart, but dont start
condemning all men and start being a lesbian k? Its bad enough for
us already 
