pete98 SG I think I am going crazy becos of a girl. Its like everytime I am good to her she start giving me cold shoulder(never reply sms/calls). But when I start to ignore her, she starts to call or sms me. Its been going on from almost 2 months now and it driving me nuts(and seem to be causing a bit of depression). Does all girls behave like this???
spaded SG well... i do. when i ignore a guy, it means that he's too persistent. i nv pick up his calls, reply his sms, block him on msn. after awhile then start contacting him again to see if he's still as annoying. if so, then sayonara~
pete98 SG Ermmm just wondering what the point of you contacting him again if you find him annoying? Just stop contacting him and I believe he would stop contacting you(at least I would). This way both of you save a lot of phone bills and emontional suffering.
spaded SG contact him -> the most unblock him from msn, chat a bit see how. i don't mind being normal friends but please don't on flooding me with mushy stuff and whatever shit. you know, you shld just ask her directly if it's because she doesn't like you and wanna be normal friends only. - don't ask her if you're annoying. cos it will irritate her even more. - don't assume reasons like, "u don't talk to me cos i ugly right" even tho u're or whatsoever. (no offence k??)
_Aaron_ SG She's testing you to see if you're the right man for her. It happens everywhere, all the time. Therefore the moral of the story is to not treat her good(but not be a jerk either), and don't call her, let her call you. Meanwhile, pretend she doesn't exist, and try to find other girls.~ There.~
M©+square SG Extract from Dating Tips Forum: Every women is a unique creature. But women have more commonalities then they have differences. For most men, a women is like a Chinese Puzzle inside a brain twister. Much of their behavior makes no sense at all! (To men) If there's one thing that we're clear about, is that most women THINK differently then most men and most women want different thing then most men. This is hard for many men to grasp or understand. But it's true, and the sooner you get a handle on what's going on here, the sooner you'll be more sociable with women. http://datin.sgforums.com/
kuuga SG there is this ger i like..but im always the one who initiates the chat/sms..somehow i feel myself quite an annoyance to her..(but i dunno how she feel though..) I cant help thinking cos theres one real life example in front of me in my circle of frens. Im very scared im following his footsteps...
pete98 SG Same problem here Now that I think about it, I should stop chat/sms with her too often. Not only does it waste money(phonebills) but I suspect I am annoying her a bit. Try reading some of the articles on the dating forum, I find them rather good.
icyprincess SG Hmm, whether they like it or not depends on how they respond to you. Does she sound irritated or annoyed or give a lot of excuses like "I am busy la, dun disturb me.." when you called? Then better dun disturb her so much lor, like call once in a week I think is okie in the beginning of relationship. But dun keep calling her like everyday, she will either take you for granted or for a stalker Actually I think for my case, it was the period of absence that happened a month ago that made us realize how much we really want to be with each other So maybe staying away from her for a while wouldn't hurt... Just my opinion i.c.y
pete98 SG True enough cos it seems like everytime I cool down and back off, she start to contact me instead. You girls have ESP is it cos its like she knows exactly when to call to get me interested(just when I thought its hopeless) again.
icyprincess SG I would say that guys seem to have ESP as well Cos he seems to be able to sense when I was angry to a point of giving up and decided to call me and ask me out again i.c.y
pete98 SG Too bad our power not not strong enough to tell us how guy/ladies really feels about each other Sigh! Ever get the feeling that this falling in love thingy is rather overrated? Is the feeling of pleasure worth the amount of hurt/pain we goes through constantly?
icyprincess SG When it is strong enuff, you will know. I am also taking a risk now, there is no guarantee that I wun end up hurt again. But I think the happiness you get in return, might be more than worth it... So it is up to you... They said the human being's heart is quite resilient, so really we have nothing to lose, the pain will only make us wiser anyway i.c.y
pete98 SG I am also taking a risk too. Just that this time the chance of success is lower than before. Hope I am not commiting emotion suicide. I just seem to be falling for ladies who just want to be friends. But I guess I mature a bit after each rejection. BTW thanks for your kind words and best of luck to your R/S
