I had a lot of restrictions when i'm with him. And he's always
going out without bringing me along. He's got at least 2 or 3 bach
nights a week. And i got to stay home when he's out. We had tons of
quarrels until 1 day, my friends told him off. He couldn't take it
and broke up with me. I love him too much and pleaded for another
chance to be together. And he suggested a cooling period.
Now, it's been 3 days to a month. He's still not given me an
answer. During these time, we've met up twice, and we're behaving
like any other normal couples. I asked him why, he told me he also
cannot control himself by not holding my hand when we meet up. He
says he need time, to think about alot of things.
All my friends told me 2 weeks is sufficient for whatever anger to
be cooled. But then? During these time, he still restrict me on
what I'm doing. He wants me to prove to him that I can change
before we get back together. Wants me to tell him where i'm going
too. His reason is, if the places, things and friends that i mix
with is clean and "guan1 ming2 zheng4 da4", I shouldn't be afraid
to let him know.
When we quarrelled about his outings last time, he also suggested a
breakup. Now, he's been going out everyday without telling me too!
It's only when i call him, then i discovered it from his
backgrounds. I can tell that he needs time to 'make up' for the
chances lost for going out when he's with me.
When i prompted the question on how long he wants me to wait, he
replied by saying :"If you are that impatient, then you can don't
wait..." I told him I felt insecured by his outings everyday now.
What if he got to know a new girl and I'm still waiting for him in
the dark? He assured me that he needs time, not to know new girls
and that he would not have a new gf in this 1 year to come. He's
sick of all these BGR problems...
