Is there true love in this world

the Bear SG

yes there is..

you just gotta find it Wink

pysche SG

wat matters most is the feeling not $$$$......
$$$$ can't buy anything de

boy in blues SG

i was talking cock. but is she as hurt as you?

kiekie SG

Maybe the right one hasn't knock on ur door yet.

For guys:
nobody is perfect unless u feel she is; at least to u. Wink if u can find a partner like this u should be contented, one who
1)cares for u
2)worry about u
3)call u to ask whether u have had ur meal
4)shares not only her happiness but doubts with u
5)treasure u
6)loves u for who u r
7)is willing to change herself to accomodate u(its hard to change a person unless the person is willing to do so)
Cool respect ur family, esp ur parents
9)understand u
10)can read ur mind

Then u r in luck!! Laughing Wink Very Happy

pysche SG

I dun think so she seems quite carefree & happy......

kiekie SG

Actually i dun realy noe wats ur problem. pardon m for being kpo, mayb u can tell us wat happened exactly?

pysche SG

All those things tat u had mention is wat i had done.......
Girls won't be content 1 lar....

boy in blues SG

was there any misunderstanding with you that caused her to jump ship? is she a victim of third party's deceptive manipulation?

if both don't apply, she not worth trouble

pysche SG

Ok actually i had been wif her from Sec 2 everything seems fine till lately...
1) She tend to find things to quarrel wif me...
2) She tend to shout at me no matter where we are...
3) She tend to scold me for looking at her sms but ( she always check on my sms too)
4) Lastly she bring up the word Let's juz be friend when i ask why she would give thousands or millions of excuse.....

the Bear SG

your handle: pysche...

is that.. supposed to be: psyche?

if so, where is Cupid to Psyche?

was her love not real? Wink

pysche SG

Thats why i say girls are very very hard to understand de....

kiekie SG

alomak, i mean if u can find a girl lidat, not u lidat to the girl u like wo.

Dun be depressed, theres lots of good roses out there, if u always stick to one and left the rest to wilt, how cud u be able to find out which is better and more suitable for u? Right?

U have to source for ur own happiness. If she dun give a damn, hack care her lor, one day she will regret and crawl back to u. Even she dun have feelings for u now but she will definitely remember there's a guy who pampers her so much. Dun waste ur youth away. Time is precious. who noes when she comes back to u crying, u alrady find one that noes how to appreciate u and the things u had done for her. Cool

pysche SG

Thx for your advice.

I won't in another r/s for the time being at least not now...

To forget something is easy but to forget someone is very hard.....

Career should be the first!!!!

boy in blues SG

tell us more about the 3rd party

pysche SG

i will tell more tomorrow but currently i need to go sleep working tomorrow....
nitez & thx for all the advice...

boy in blues SG

that might have been 1 of her reasons

kiekie SG

Let me tell u y she does tat.(Mayb i m right mayb not, its up to u to tink)
1stly is she studying or workng currently?
Either she got to noe a new guy tat makes her feel wanted all over again.
I mean who dun like to be wooed after?esp girls?? **i like to , but i dun want**cuz i have a good one

1)she feels great abt herself when he's ard her. tat's y she trying to find fault wif u for every single little things. May the guy cud do it and yet when u can't she felt annoyed or watever its hard to say.

2)Mayb she sensed ur insecurities and tried to hide her *secrets by raising her voice at u as and when she likes.

3)of cuz she's scared tat u will see dos msg the guy sms her(mayb she 4got to delete as she tot she wun be so suay to get caught)

when a person changes his/her feelings for u, esp girls, everything u do seems to get into her way. everyting she will try to pick out the flaws.

Let her go.. she's only taking u for granted and taking advantage of ur weaknes. Do u tink she's realy ur type? I mean this is life, learn to accept changes. Find ways to comfort urself, go out with frens, play online games when free, keep urself busy. Time heals..all wounds, but sometimes it will leave scars tat can't be erased.

Tat is u can forgive but will not forget.(this is me)

boy in blues SG

you're good! Aunt Agony could use your talent Very Happy

_Aaron_ SG

I used to think there is true love in this world... used to believe in fairy tales, in the movies, in the books that i've read. Used to think that there is a perfect person for each of us, if only we know how to look.

Years of exposure to the world has tainted my innocence. I no longer think that way. Instead, i wake up to the horrible reality that the dating scene is just a game. A Big game. Those who eventually succeed are those who understand how the game is played.

I recently 'discovered' the 'rules' of the game, and i'm slowly changing my mindset. Yea, good guys finish last being one of them.

But well, i haven't really been in love before, so i can't say i've been hurt to the point of wanting to suicide, but oh well... i guess my time will come someday.

Yunhaier SG

You want true love? Are you prepared for:

'...vulnerablility. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this whole armor, for years, so nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They don't ask for it. They do something dumb one day like kiss you, or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like 'maybe we should just be friends' or 'how very perceptive' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, and a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain....'

What's TRUE In True love?

Astrologically speaking or emotionally speaking?

The process or result?

P.S: We will never find the perfect person; we can only shape the perfect love from our inperfect partners. Idea

Cheers

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