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last SG · 2004-12-03T13:37:48+00:00

yea. Go to the christian forum better. Our advice will be quite different. In fact, very different~

dumbdumb! SG

ask that in eternal hope. cuz its kinda out of topic Idea

laurence82 SG

if ever i am ask to choose between god and family, friends, galfren...i choose the latter... Rolling Eyes

since someone said very clearly there is no sitting on the fence..

doomz SG

Tis explain y some christian donate 10% of their salary to church

http://www.surfinthespirit.com/charity/testing-promises.shtml

SnowFlag SG

in which phrase does it say?

SnowFlag SG

bo lang? None of my questions are answered.

dumbdumb! SG

sheesh. can u go post in eternal hope or smth? u're going out of topic. Rolling Eyes

SnowFlag SG

i am asking within the topic of this thread. Cool

dumbdumb! SG

which either shows you can't read or you can't interpret content. what is the content? Rolling Eyes

M©+square SG

all the advices were given already.

I'll offer another question to think about.

>>>If she converts...then 4yrs r/s savaged and marriage on the way.
:::Good for you:::

>>>If she didn't and you gave in...You lost your faith but got a girl who loves you and is willing to be with you all your life(?)
:::You lose some you gain some:::

>>>If she didn't, you didn't give way too, you'll have your faith and God.
:::Your salvation and security:::

But she'll leave you...and possibly hates every single christian(Guys) she might come across in the future. Hate God himself....
She might feel bitter because 4yrs of relationship ended in anyway would tear her heart apart literally.
She couldn't have imagined how great God is in your life or those wonderful experience you had with God whenever you spent your time with Him.
All she knows is...God has taken you away from her. She has lost four yrs of effort building a r/s with you.

You've took a holistic approach in trying to convey the message.
She didn't accept it...which is naturally. Because she couldn't understand why her bf changed so much and have gone further and further away from her.
As said before...your spiritual POV couldn't make any sense to her...
You've become frustrated...she'll feel likewise.

My experience i've seen...you're a Fire-Brand.
But from your post. It seems like you're more concerned over your own security and comfort zone...

My gut feel tells me.
The fact is...it's the 4yrs and effort put in the r/s that's still holding you back.
The LOVE you have for her is questionable.

This might be offensive. But if i'm correct...pls take a step back and consider.

_______________________________
My take on your spiritual walk...give yourself eight months to two years. And look back at those time when you're a baby Christian.
You'll find yourself mellowed down alot.
It's too soon to say now anyway.

ak0 SG

about the 10% thing... dunno if the bible said it anot.. but wat i noe is everyone noes about it... christian too.. true u can dun give or less than 10%
but that somehow has become a gauge..

[email protected]_arms SG

lol does it say in the bible "thou shall not masterbate or go out with girls"?

In spending time with ur girl, u are with god, u are with god no matter what surely, since he is so GREAT and BIG and PERFECT!

Come let us recite my Lord's prayer prayer;

"Oh lord! You who are so BIG. So incredibly HUGE. We are all mightily impressed down here i can tell you. Oh lord, you GREAT BIG HUMONGOUS POTENT SPIRIT of Subspace. Bless us oh LORD, and make us BIG too!"

alien_04 SG

wah....i dun think there should be a rule, u give as u like at least be sincere
about it. 10% too much lah, i think some pple dun even give so much to parents who "xing xing ku ku" brought children up...god got millions of followers to give $, but your parents only have you and your siblings (if any).

dumbdumb! SG

eh. shrugs. tithe means 1/10 in the english term anyway

Devil1976 SG

Yup..

Devil1976 SG

Nay... Christians and non-christians do come together.. It just depends on how flexible both parties are... Level of tolerance and understanding... Just don't step into each other's path... Just like privacy thingy..? Wink

Devil1976 SG

I'll suggest as someone else has suggested earlier.. Take it from BOTH sides..? Rolling Eyes

If he's not taking it from a neutral or opposite view at the same time, he'll probably be missing out on what his gf wanna tell him...?

Devil1976 SG

The BLUE is COOL... Walking with GOD does not mean you'll have to give her up... Like I've said earlier.. Rather than taking EXTREME MEASURES, you should try and BALANCE things off...

greengoblin SG

Okay...very simple lah....

Will you being xtian and her not accepting your xtian way of live strain YOUR marriage ???

IF cannot come to compromise... please end these shit altogether...

When you marry and have sex~~~ and have bibi...that time argue and want to break up...ho seh liaoz... Women Charter after you....You suffer a decrease in your faith and your whole bloody life is in a mess...

IF CAN compromise... which I think you should seriously discuss with your wifey, tell her some time are set aside for her and some time for God, but you love her more 'cause God with you ?

Anyway up to you lah~~~ marriage not simple one.... consider carefully~~~ or go pray lah almak.... talk to your pastor see what he say...

Devil1976 SG

People PLEASE STICK WITHIN the TOPIC of CONCERN...

For enquiries on how christians and churches operates, pls go to Eternal Hope...

greengoblin SG

I think most important give from heart right??? If LPPL give 10%... I think God in heaven also bue song leh....

Give what you can give lor~~~ if now marry need money...then budget abit ~~~

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