Xuan ... U have just experienced the jealousy of an immature
boy. Boys usually can't stand their girlfriends talking alot to
other guys. Especially without their Acknowledgement. Next time
inform before you do. Its too late scolding your child for not
taking care of the jug when the milk is already spilled. Emotions
are hard to control. I know when you are lonely and you can't
communicate with your boyfriend, you tend to seek another close
friend. But please, try calling a girl instead of a boy, that way,
you could avoid much miscommunication that you liked another guy,
etc. But since now that guy is avoiding you... The only solution to
build back the trust between you two. You state that you know him
better for only a year? Have you experienced close experiences
together during that period of time when you both were just
friends? He likes you, but doesn't know whether be able to trust
you not to talk to other guys on the phone at nights when he is not
free. He wants to believe you, but perhaps the amount of time you
both spent together as friends are not suffice to convince his
"reality concious" that you will change for the better. Or rather,
change to suit his needs. IF you really need to talk to guys on
lonely nights, perhaps you should convince him logically why, like
talking to that guy friend reminds you of him, etc. etc. If he is
matured enough, he should understand that he may not be always
there for you as he is still a human, and continue to allow you to
communicate with that guy PROVIDED he knows that guy well, and that
you both do not talk too long. OK, back to reality. Love doesn't
last long, any logical commonfolk would know that, At this age, its
really as what saab95 has said, its better to be friends. As you
both have not a stable income yet, parents may be a problem in the
future, and other reasons stated by saab95. Think positive, count
your blessings, at least you still have your Kor =), remember,
don't easily get into relationships anymore. Make sure you really
know the person, Experienced joyful and trumatising events before,
and really enjoys the person's accompany. Otherwise, prepare for
heartaches throughout your whole youth.Smile more and enjoy life.
If fate really declares you two both together, you two will be
together in the future. worry about your studies now.. Get a decent
job, enjoy company of your friends, go clubbing, discos, snookers,
pools, KTVs, pubbing, beach parties, swimming, exercising, outings,
shopping, study together, have meals together, cherish the time
spent with friends, get your mind off him. Don't bother making
yourself worrying all the time while he is enjoying himself, live
your life to the fullest, show him you can live without him, show
him that he needs you. =) be desirable, not a bounded slave.
Lastly, take care and goodnitez =)
