One thing that i often find myself doing is to put myself in her
shoes.
If you're a girl, and someone who you know likes you a few years
ago suddenly meets you out. What would you think?
Several scenarios here..:
A) Is he trying to woo me again?
B) Oh, he used to be a good friend, maybe he just wants to
meet.
C) Go out? Okay.. I was bored anyways.
Something along these lines.
But I can be sure if shes thinking of A, well, since there is no
progress, we must take things back to the beginning.
And by doing that, ask yourself since you last met her. How much do
you know about her? Are you willing to give up this friendship,
just to tell someone youre not sure who likes you, what you
feel?
Once again, judging from what I see outside of the circle (You must
often pull yourself out of the situation and look at it, without
all the emotions, else your view is biased, and may often bring
downfall.)
Last of all, I have 2 personal experiences that coincide with
yours. I used to have 2 good female friends, I liked them, and
thought they liked me(at different times of course), so I told them
what I feel. I didnt pull myself out of the circle and think, and
that was a very big mistake.
I lost 2 good friends subsequently, and it was only thanks to God
that I got them back, so Im quite relieved.
But really, sometimes its better to think with your brain, then
with your heart. Whatever you do, make a wise an informed decision,
and dont rush too much when it comes to affairs of the
heart.
