Originally posted by eveline:
Well, before I start, I would like to let you know, this is
not another relationship story, but this is a real story.
A guy knows a girl for several years. They have been together and
love each other for years. That guy work hard to give the best to
the girl, and she is the only one he love.
Finally, they married. The husband has been working hard to give
the wife a better lifestyle. He dont want the wife to work, as he
love her, he want her to relax at home, and perhaps do some
housework, and cook some food. But if the wife is tired, he will
ask her to rest, and take her out for meal. In order not for her to
feel bored at home, the husband encourage her to learn something
new, and he found some MMORPG for her to kill her free time. He
encourages her to know more people.
Few months after they married, the husband has been suffered from
stress of work, he feel very depress. He hopes and begs his wife to
understand him more, but the wife has changed. She has thousands of
requests, she demands more and more. Not materialistic, but she
demands more loves, cares, and times. The husband still tries hard
to fulfill.
At this time, the wife knows a stranger on the net through an
online game. She told the stranger every problem between her and
her husband. She trusted the stranger. As time pass, they propose
to meet each other. She plans, when her husband is at work, she
invited the stranger come to her house. She gives him her heart,
and eventually her body.
The husband trusted her so much, and he never and will never know
that her wife loving another man. He still is trying hard on how to
fulfill his wife.
One day, the husband is at work, and suddenly he has a thought. He
knocks off early, go to a jewelry shop to buy a diamond chain for
his wife, and plan to have a good dinner with his wife. When he
reach home earlier than usual hour, when he is at font of the door
and about to use his key to open the door
he heard some sounds,
yes, as you guess, his wife and a guy
He walks off, he feels extremely sad, and upset. The only thing in
his life is she, the only thing to motivate him is she, whatever he
does is for her, and he never unfaithful to his wife. But
As he feel there are no more hope in his life, he decided to
revenge.
For subsequent months, he has been having unprotected s3x with lots
of pros, what he wanted is to get infected. What he wants is to
pass all this to the wife.
there are still lots of things happen at this period of time,
including the wife decided to stay, but the guy still dont want to
let go, and reveal their affair to the husband. And the husband
take no action and give no reaction, because he has already know
all this.
blah blah blah
and now, they been tested
Husband: HIV - Positive, HepB - Positive, and other diseases (I
cant actually remember those name)
Wife: HepB - Positive, HIV result unknown yet (because has to wait
for a period of time for the result to be accurate)
The Stranger: No idea. But good luck to him and to the one he
love.
The husband has no regret, and he told the wife, even she decided
to stay, but her decision are too late. He said, [b]when you
decided to open the door for that guy, and when he decided to step
in our house, both of you are decided to have this tragedy. There
are no reasons, no explanations, no excuses, because you are my
wife, if you really love him, and he really love you, there are
something call divorce in this world.
[/b]
All the time, no Love will be smooth - even puppy
love has its own difficulty, despite disproval from adults. It
doesn't even matter if the couple has a long history of
relationship prior before the marriage, in love, usually what
matters is the present. You can have a wonderful past, but when the
present is screwed, the future is tilted and deviated from its
original course. This relationship will eventually slammed into
some love wicked cosmic lessons at the side of the route, waiting
to pound onto the relationship like hungry wolfhounds.
Its so interesting... so interesting to note how loving a man could
be, trying to provide and give all his world to the woman of his
love, yet this
relationship lack the soul communication, which is the
ultimate fall of the marriage. There is not even a mentioned
attempt of having a soul talk with one another in trying to decide the fate of the
relationship, instead, he resort to his own form of
conclusion and option based on his depressed & confused mode of
thinking.
In simple - for what? 
He has a good relationship seriously, yet he has forgotten the
basic of handling one? His own tragedy was, truely, forged from his
own hands. Why wait until when the effect take place, did he pour
his emotions to his wife? A marriage is a bond where we learn MUCH
from our primary relationship - there is no reason for such drastic
measures to inflict into the learning process.
Is that loving? It came from the core of hatred, which is the
opposite side of Love's coin.
P.S: To employ destructive options in critical times is to weaken
yourself and our relationship eventually. The more Cupid wants to
challenge the relationship, stand like a rock. If confusion slips
into the mind, by default - always do what's better of
the future of the relationship ultimately.
Cheers
