you might wanna think about the girls rejecting poor guys becos
they themselves are poor (geez i hate that word, it's very crude to
me!) and perhaps a not-so-poor guy is an escape for them.
not that i'm saying that mentality is right, of course!
anywayz, i hear ur plea for them to come clean and just tell you
that they reject u becos u are poor, but honestly, i doubt how that
could make u feel better. perhaps the excuses will make u feel not
so shItty, becos sometimes u just know it, but to hear it, it
sticks the knife further in. no point lar.
altho the topic is about girls rejections based on the financial
level of a guy, let me address the issue of poorness.
i assume you don't have any debt. if you do, then disregard the
rest of this post.
if you don't, trust me, you are considered rich in singapore!
wat girls are looking for is a healthy cash flow. under that
healthy cash flow, u wouldn't have a CLUE whether the person is
really rich or not until u check out his DSR (debt servicing ratio,
the amt of debt he has wrt to his income), and of course if he has
no debt at all, then that's the best, everything he owns, is HIS.
(or hers...)
so we can have someone who owes the world say $100,000 but earns 6k
a month. his cash flow is 6k in, 4k out, 2k to debts, for instance.
compare that with someone else (you perhaps) with 0 debt, 1k in,
800 out, 200 to savings.
wat the girls see is the 4k out from the first guy, compared to
your 800 out a month. of course to the girls, the first guy rocks.
but which position would u rather be?
just a disclaimer, some of you might argue that the 100k of debt is
in assets. think again, property is dropping, cars are NOT an
asset, and more pple are losing in the stock market than earning,
becos pple are gambling, not investing.
girls, if you really are a gold digger, perhaps this might help u
choose ur rich man wisely too. not that i encourage gold
digging.
