There have been several articles going round in the media... Sg
man travelling overseas to marry a foreigner wife. Reasons? They
all had enough of sg gals.
Not to bring discussion out of context, I'm not discussing those
"Get married in 7hrs" cases. Foreign marriage results from normal
courtship stages just like any other relationships. (Just that the
gal is not from sg)
Sg gals (as their wife) are too demanding, unappreciative and least
understanding. Among many of my married gal friends.. they chose to
divorce their husband simply bcos they feel that they "had" enough
of them! Not as like in the past where divorce is only resorted
when the man flirts outside the marriage. Now, it's simply the case
of "don like it, divorce lor" These contribute to the rising
numbers of divorce cases. (60% of all the divorce cases are
petitioned by the female) Sometimes it appears like the man is
ready for a marriage...but not the female counterpart. It's
unbelievable when the main reason for a divorce could be due to
some really simple issues.. eg. "the toilet seats up or down?" ,
"my husband refuse to tune down the air-con temp". Amazing isn't
it!
Has the tolerance level in a marriage of these gals gone down with
their self-dependent capabilities in this society going up? I bet
many of us had heard gals commenting... "I don need man anymore. I
can depend on myself." (well, I had heard uncountless of such
comments)
Sg gals must not forget, they are not the only only female species
in this world. Being a man has choices too. Don't say "Yes, I Do"
in the marriage that easily without having the faith to keep it
going for a lifetime. Respect the unity in a marriage.
Any comments?
