I totally agree with Veloren.
You are being used as an emotional tampon (i feel kinda strange
using this word.). And why buy something when you can have it for
free?
Her actions have indeed shown that she is attracted to the guy,
more than you. Why? Because she choose to have that unofficial
relationship even though she could have a normal one with you. And
how long has that been?
Think about it. Is it so hard for her to tell the guy, who doesn't
meet her much at all, to say "Dood, i dun like you anymore. I'm
going to elope with my ex-bf, who treats me like the way i should
be treated!" or something along that line.
No. Its not hard for her at All. She just doesn't want to. And why?
Why would she choose someone who can't spend time with, and have a
unofficial relationship with him, than to have someone who treats
her nice and all.
Its all about ATTRACTION.. Attraction for other
guy > you.
Well, read my topic for more information.
And meanwhile, its your choice whether to stay or not. We have told
you what we can.