Originally posted by skybellzz:
There is this guy whom i have met thru an online
network...and we first agreed to meet through a clubbing session.
By then we have already known each other but got to meet
face-to-face for the first time.
Even though we met each other for the first time, he already
started making simple physical contacts like ruflling my hair and
touching my arms.
Then we started to go swimming together and went out together. One
day he even asked me to go to his house to watch a movie.
All these while he has been very friendly to me, and as usual, he
made lots of physical contact like putting his arms around my
shoulders, ruffle my hair, poke my cheeks, poke my waist, splashed
water playfully when swimming and carried me in his arms and threw
me in the pool, asked me to give him a massage, playfully called me
names, tried to pull my hand when we crossed the road, and gave a
parting hug when we parted on the bus. When i was at his house, he
carried me again and then put me down into his laps. He used to
mention that he "quite like petite girls" (like me), and he talked
about his ex-gf casually who seems to be petite also. when i was at
his house, he actually took off his shirt and asked me to apply
moisturiser on his back and give him a massage...sometimes he will
jokingly call me to give him a hug, but i will refuse.
I do not know what he's thinking, and i'm not sure if he's
interested in me or just toying with my feelings, or treating me
like an "outgoing" girl. In front of him, I do not act flirtatious,
because I am still a conservative girl who will not have sex with
anyone until i really find the right one whom i will marry. But
it's easy to ask him to go out. I dunno if i am treating him just
like a friend.
I do not feel the same way to him as I did to people whom I really
liked before. The thing that confuses me, is that he's a
[b]model, and I do not know who he hangs out with. I am
confused. I am kind of attracted to him now, but i dunno if it's
lust or like, and i also found out that he has a lot of friends. I
do not know if he treats other girls the same way as he did to me
with all those physical contacts.
Please tell me what i should do to know if he's really interested
in me or just being friendly or playing with my feelings.[/b]
Typical playboy. Reject him.