Originally posted by snoght:
Should i give her up, forget abt her and carry on? Or just
be friends? Or dun give up and wait patiently?
I just broke up with my gf a week ago.We have been together for
more than 2 yrs. Throughout this time i have been very good to her,
she is to me too. We seldom quarrel and have been very happy and
loving. We always felt that we will get marry each other in the
end. But..
She has been working for about a yr. As a depress and pessimistic
girl, she always have many thing to complain especially when she
just started work. Everytime, i will listen patiently to her, help
her think so solutions, calm her down and make her feel better. As
time goes by, she became better, problems from work was lesser. And
our conversations are also getting shorter. We begin to have
[b]communication problem as we didnt have much common
topic to talk about. She tried her best to hang on but i didnt
realised it till its too late..
She became very close to an ex colleague. I knew it and complain
abt it to her. but she keep assuring me that they are just patonic
friends. As i know she loves me alot, so i believed her. but all
the while i was quite uneasy abt it. she was afraid that i will be
very miserable so she begin to lie to me abt going out with him.
But everytime i would know about it as she dunno how to lie and
will end up quarreling with her.
One night, we went out with him again. i found out and was very
hurt and angry. i went down immediately to look for her. we talk
abt it and she told me they have some time cross the line of being
friends. She was moved by him.
she was confused abt it and was really sorry and want me to give
her time to sort out her feelings. So i sent her back home. When i
reach home, i called her but she didnt pick up for very long. i was
worried and went around looking for her. In the end, she called me.
she was at the movies with the guy. She said that her feeling for
me was always the same but she felt even more for the guy. She is
able to click emotionally with him!
We didnt broke up immediately though.. i didnt want to give her
up.this is what she had always taught me. i tried to win her back.
she was touched but also guilty. But one day i found out that she
send a love letter to the guy.. When i knew it i was very angry,
felt cheated and hurt. I confronted her and in the end we broke
up.. broke up the night before my exam..
Though i was angry at the night, but all the anger and hate was
gone by the next day. i started to miss her.. i still love her.. i
regretted that i confronted her that night as that marked the end
of everything.. she is still not together with him yet. but i know
its soon or later. i felt that i have given her up, given my chance
up. I know that she wont turn back. she always felt that a
r/s with a scar will never have a good ending.. is this
true?? But is it possible for a r/s to never have a scar??
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WAKE UP... If she DOESN'T want it... There's NOTHINg you can do
about it too....?
