and you girls ah, sometimes really too indecisive liao!!
if you find him to be a bother, just say it, whether subtly or not.
by replying to his sms and keeping quiet, you are effectively
boosting his confidence and giving him the silent approval. and i
do not see how cruel that can be: if a guy is not able to handle a
rejection like this, the problem should lie with him and
NOT you! 
