BGR is really real scary, from what I've read here

Suicine SG

which is why I’m gonna be a monk when I grow up.

FireIce SG

it's not scary

jus tt nobody post the "success stories" here (is there a need to?)

monkeybusiness SG

good for u Mr. Green

sgboy2004 SG

croco cannot become monk Very Happy

croco go out to buaya liao

Devil1976 SG

This is the place where the broken hearts gather... What do you expect to see?

Just because you walk right into a mental institute, you shouldn't be too fast in concluding that humans are all crazy creatures...?

jusgal SG

Laughing

-zefiris- SG

...we're all insane but are we insane enough? Very Happy

SunRisE SG

is not scary.. normally ppl who post here are those who experience some problems.. and they wan to hear other ppl views..

You don't see people posting how great their relationship is.. i mean the most we congrats that's all.. what kind of views you wanna hear from a good r/s.. Even if that's the case.. a good r/s no need to tell everyone.. they can see it for themselves.. Mr. Green

Suicine SG

it still means there are some that screw up right?

Suicine SG

and you have to work hard to maintain the relationship, looks tiring to me

ps. The topic title was supposed to have only either a "really" or "real", that's what you get for editing over your work without checking

Kenashi SG

of course lah, there is 2 side to a coin!!
there are always success n failure!!

Bontakun SG

I dun have a broken heart but I still venture here.

Mr. Green

Kenashi SG

learn from ppl experience Laughing

Suicine SG

I'm not taking the risk, it's pointless anyway even if you succeed.

FireIce SG

u said it

SOME

Suicine SG

yes, read my previous post

Bontakun SG

Well... 1/2 1/2, I got my stories & I recovered ages ago...

& as for da guy who tinkin of bcuming a monk: BGR is not scary, da human mind is... dat aside if yoo tink being a monk can evade all dat, yoo r WRONG. Yoo r escaping from reality & yoo dun wanna face it. Is dat wat yoo wan?

Life is abt experiencing, juz imagine when yoo r "dying" (touchwood! got any blockheads here?), yoo wld tink thru wat yoo have done, wat yoo may regret not doin, wat yoo wanna try to do but never did... Wld yoo go in peace?

True, many things yoo experience may not be good, infact I believe we ALL experience more bads den goods. BUT bcoz we experienced all those things, at least we noe wat its like, how we felt, wat can we do abt it, how we can handle it shld there be a 2nd time. I can safely sae, "Good or bad. We've done it & dun regret it." dat BARS all things dats against yr conscious, like theft, lie, murder, peeping into gal bathing, etc, etc...

Besides I've read alot of BGR probs in AA here & found dat its actually not dat serious, its juz how 1 handles da prob dat matters & I tell yoo, escaping from it is not 1... Being a monk is another matter, if yoo ready to let go of ALL emotions, attachments, everything... den go ahead be my guest & take da tonsure.

Ok, consultation fee = $12. Yoo can repay mee by treating mee a meal sometime. -oo-

Kenashi SG

then u might as well kill yrself since u know u going to die someday!!!
I saw a phrase b4 "are we born to die"
I know that everyone has to die someday but it is up to us to live our life to the fullest b4 we die!!

Cpl Ho SG

Well, we are fallen creatures...

But hey, there's no need to give up just yet rite?

We live by HOPE... Wink

Suicine SG

Originally posted by Bontakun

Well... 1/2 1/2, I got my stories & I recovered ages ago...

& as for da guy who tinkin of bcuming a monk: BGR is not scary, da human mind is... dat aside if yoo tink being a monk can evade all dat, yoo r WRONG. Yoo r escaping from reality & yoo dun wanna face it. Is dat wat yoo wan?

Life is abt experiencing, juz imagine when yoo r "dying" (touchwood! got any blockheads here?), yoo wld tink thru wat yoo have done, wat yoo may regret not doin, wat yoo wanna try to do but never did... Wld yoo go in peace?

True, many things yoo experience may not be good, infact I believe we ALL experience more bads den goods. BUT bcoz we experienced all those things, at least we noe wat its like, how we felt, wat can we do abt it, how we can handle it shld there be a 2nd time. I can safely sae, "Good or bad. We've done it & dun regret it." dat BARS all things dats against yr conscious, like theft, lie, murder, peeping into gal bathing, etc, etc...

Besides I've read alot of BGR probs in AA here & found dat its actually not dat serious, its juz how 1 handles da prob dat matters & I tell yoo, escaping from it is not 1... Being a monk is another matter, if yoo ready to let go of ALL emotions, attachments, everything... den go ahead be my guest & take da tonsure.

Ok, consultation fee = $12. Yoo can repay mee by treating mee a meal sometime. -oo-

it's not just to escape from BGR that I'm taking the tonsure, it's also to work towards enlightenment so that I can see all sufferings like nothing, and BGR is like redundant. A cultivated person won't think of so many "what ifs".